So he says I'm cute, compliments me like crazy, says I could call him at 4am if I wanted. Seems to spot me extra close says I'm his favorite client so on and so on and gives me massages after the work out. Now I'm falling like crazy for him. Are all personal trainers like this is he just trying to keep the business or do you think he may have a thing for me?
2006-11-10 04:20:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Personal trainers usually prefer married women. At least my ex-wife's did.
Why would he do all that just for the business? No obviously he is into you. You must be married.
2006-11-10 04:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Bruce Tzu 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Falling for your personal trainer is a common occurence in many people's lives. Close attention, lots of sweaty time spent together etc, leads to recipe for disaster. The calling at 4am part is a little too unprofessional i think. Surely he doesnt mean it that way? Maybe it was just a passing remark. Anyway, the best advice to follow is, never ever fall in love with your personal trainer. Who knows how many others he has conned?
2016-05-22 02:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds like he's being HIGHLY unprofessional!! Even if he does have a thing for you, he shouldn't let that show while he's working with you at the gym -- he should wait to call you when he's not working. It sounds like he likes you, but you don't know that he's not saying the same things and doing the same things he's doing with you to all of his other clients too....
I'd be careful if I were you... and he should be too -- that could be considered harrassment.
2006-11-10 04:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. It all sounds nice and legit, but I'd be careful. I'm sure you're not the first one to get a massage after training. Go ahead and ask him out, see how it goes, and try to keep your emotions a little protected. He may be genuinely interested in you, which is great, or he may just be providing just the right kind of 'customer service' to ensure you'll keep coming back. Good luck!
2006-11-10 04:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no offense, i'm sure you are cute, etc. but trainers do this to all of their clients, or at least the cute ones. watch yourself so you don't end up getting hurt and having to find another trainer at the same time.
2006-11-10 04:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by Caterina C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and call him at 4AM, likely it's a cell phone, if not you may get his wife/boyfriend answering.
2006-11-10 04:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by kam_1261 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to ride the Samantha 2. That's how they are. Don't let him jerk you around you're better than that. They are suppose to be pros but they just want to et their wienies wet. Sorry!
2006-11-10 04:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you should talk to him about it..
ask him whether or not he's interested in you outside the gym or whatever.. or just call him and meet up other places..
2006-11-10 04:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by bebechick504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk about it with him. Don't ever do stuff without knowing that you are sure. So before doing anything you better talk to him about how you feel.
2006-11-10 04:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jorge X 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he's an unethical sleaze.
2006-11-10 04:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kacky 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋