i'm 18 and i'm in a 2yr relationship and a boy in ma college class fancies me!(he's a serious nit-wit)
2006-11-10 04:19:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've already told him i've got a b/f
but he wouldnt listen.
2006-11-10 04:27:31 · update #1
Oh god, this happened to me. You can't beat around the bush. Just tell him that you're in a serious relationship. Be firm but polite. I hope he gets the term SERIOUS, as in he can't have you. If that doesn't work, you may need your boyfriend by your side in order for him to get the picture. Good Luck!
2006-11-10 04:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything you already have a boyfriend. No matter what theirs always gonna be someone that likes you some where some how even if you have a boyfriend and that's normal because i'm sure their are girls that like your boyfriend. The thing is don't act on it. If the guy likes you fine! but let it be known that you have a boyfriend and your not interested in him he has to respect that. Also watch yourself with him you don't want him to get the wrong idea, just a simple hi or smile can cause him to think you like him back. Avoid putting yourself in any unnecessary situations with him such as conversation ect. most importanly remember you have a boyfriend.
2006-11-10 12:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by Drey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd start out by saying it nicely but bluntly, that u r spoken 4 and u r flattered but taken. Just remember it doesn't feel good 2 b blown by someone when u really like that someone so try 2 b nice, ok.
2006-11-10 12:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Gijit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you just want to friends with him or go out with him without you're boyfriend knowing. But if you really like the boyfriend you have now, than just be friends with the boy that likes you.
2006-11-10 12:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by 0110111001101111 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have one relationship or commitment at a time. It's pitiful to seemingly cheat on your boyfriend. remember what you sow you will reap. time, anyway will test your relationship with your boyfriend. juts be wise, if it's not him, tell him and quit relationship. then, you can accept new suitors. you're only 18, it's a long road to walk on. it's not a priority in life yet.
2006-11-10 12:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by Shirbol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing anyone in a relationship does, you simply tell that other person sorry, but your already with someone else.
2006-11-10 12:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you already have a boyfriend and that you would just like to be friends with him.
2006-11-10 12:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the other boy know that you have a boyfriend and that you're not interested.
2006-11-10 12:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Adam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your taken,,,and your not interested and to lay off! to be honest,,,you shoudn't even have to askl this question unless he is like a super scary stalker...most men will take it how it is and move on...... good luck
2006-11-10 12:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the boy to take a number I'm sure you will get to him
2006-11-10 12:24:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋