ever since i moved on to high school ive changed Ive become so aggressive and always feel depressed.
i dont think theres something worng with me but nobody wants to talk to me or get to know me i always feel left out and lonely the only people wo talk to me are the ones who bully me and make fun of me(boys) cuz im tall and they re all short they call me names that really hurt me and keep writing stuff on my books like **** u and everytime they come near my desk they throw my things on the floor and step on them.They treat me like im some kind of **** I would think thats normal but its not cuz im the only 1 they hassle.Ive always been shy and lack self confidence maybe thats why?Now the girls think im atotal kid whos still mean to boys but its actually the other way round.what do u think i should do?should i leave this school?
another problem is that sometimes i dont stand up for myself i just try to ignore them.I dont like hurting people.
2006-11-10 04:14:16 · 11 answers · asked by Cutebabe 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Leaving school is not the answer. If you did that, what would you do next? Feel too depressed to get a job, or get a minimum wage job that you hate and gee...the people there treat you badly too. Imagine that.
YOU are the problem, kiddo. You need therapy. You are just full of self-pity. "Oh, I don't want to hurt people...but I'll let them ALL use me like a doormat. That's ok."
2006-11-10 04:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
I was in the same situation you were in but you have to learn to not run away from your problems. If you leave the school there's a good chance that the next school you go to will treat you the same as the last school did. You have to learn to toughen up and get into something you love. Stop caring about what other people thing of you. Don't be so competitive just be the best you that you can be. Trust in the Lord and go to him with all of your problems because you cant do all of this on your own.
2006-11-10 12:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by GIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to be in this situation. I was in a similar situation at a school that I went to . For a half a year nobody would give me the time of day. They didn't tease me(but have been before), but just had there noses up in the air. It hurt a lot. I was at a new school and nobody would talk to me. Anyway, my junior year people started to talk to me and school was a little better, but I ended up going back to my old school were people talked to me again.
Anyway, in junior high I had it rough. The kids would trip me, make fun of my clothes and do other nasty things to me. It was hard to deal with, but I just took it one day at a time and remember that you are not alone. As I got older I started to relize that the reason the boys picked on me was, because I was pretty and they didn't know how to handle it. It got a lot easier for me when I went to high school as far as the teasing. I hope it will for you to. You might consider talking to a counselor and see if they can help you.
2006-11-10 12:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Rosey55 D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things get really tough then maybe you should think about it, but only if you can see another school where you think you have a better chance of being happy.
If you feel the place you're in is bringing out the worst in you, then you can improve on that in the meantime by thinking before you act.
BTW - being tall is cool, and when you're a bit older the lads may well regret the insults when they realise they actually fancy you!
Good luck.
2006-11-10 12:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Nick W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Iknow exactly how you feel, especially on the last thing that you said.
If you are that miserable at this school, I think you should try to find a way to switch to a better one. If you are a senior, you can just put up with it and wait until graduation, which will be sooner than you know it. Otherwise, get out. You will do more damage to youself staying in than you would expect.
2006-11-10 12:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to then you should but I don't think that is going to solve anything. So I think you need to be brave enough to stand up to them!! And try to make some friends to be there with you when you do it. So you can have there support.. After that everything should be OK. Good luck!! Hope this helps.
2006-11-10 12:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by xochelsxo16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you should leave the school. If you keep running you will be doing it for a long time in your life. Show them who's boss, and never let them see that they are getting to you. crack jokes on them back. Dont be scard. If this problem precise then you need to tell someone, or talk to your cousellor at your school.
2006-11-10 12:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not something anyone should have to endure!
Kids can be so mean!
You need to talk to someone... or even MORE than one person! Talk to the school counselor as a start! You need someone to help you figure out how to deal with this situation... and it would help that the counselor knows all the kids involved... she/he will know what these kids are capable of.
Please promise that you will talk to someone!!!!!
2006-11-10 12:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by cheesytoast 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Judging only from the obvious fact that you are having trouble writing a sentence in English, then, yes, you SHOULD go to another school.
2006-11-10 12:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me you need to KICK SOME A S S !
2006-11-10 12:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋