I have been seeing this guy but since I´m really shy I have a hard time opening up to him and when he calls he tells me thing like tell me something and I´m like mmmmm what do you want me to tell you, so what can I do to overcome my shyness and to open up a bit more with him?
2006-11-10 03:49:58 · 12 answers · asked by crisy m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. You never knew what might happen
2006-11-10 03:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in the wrong section. But i will try to help. Shyness stems from insecurity, low self esteem and low confidence. You have been socially conditioned to be shy, maybe because you were picked on, or did not have enough positive reinforcement as a child... unfortunately this has effected you as an adult (you are an adult arent you?) What i suggest is this. First. Realize most people are shy to some degree. Everyone has reservations when dealing with other people to some extent, everybody doubts themselves and has insecurities. You are not alone in the way you feel. Secondly, to deal with shyness you are going to have to be persistent, it is going to take time and practice. Start off with some very small things you could do. smile to a check out clerk and ask how there day is. build up from small to large. Analyze the way you think. Google "distorted thinking" and read up you may be surprised what you find, and eliminate any negative thinking patterns. Third. Be kind to yourself..and respect yourself. No one is going to do that for you. Do not put yourself down. Try not to dwell on things. What has happened has happened and look towards the future for improvement. ignore insults. Remember compliments. If you cant talk to people in real life, find a forum online for people who suffer from shyness. Read up on things you can do. You can escape if you really want to.
2016-03-19 06:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know ,but when you find out let me know.my woman in new zealand is shy also and i want to help her overcome that...
2006-11-10 04:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds corny, but you could write down things you'd like to share, and then just use it as a cue sheet.
2006-11-10 03:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by CrabbyMcCrab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eliminate Social Anxiety Shyness - http://SocialAnxiety.uzaev.com/?dmZu
2016-06-22 00:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start going out with friend more often- friends are really good at helping you out overcome this
2006-11-10 03:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was like you, but you know what? not anymore.i start going out more often with friends, about dates, all i can say is i start talking to the guy more, you know just say whatever you think. dont be that quiet. just say whatever you think and don't be shy,
2006-11-10 03:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by stargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the Drama club! you need to build more self confidence first girl before you make the effort to speak to anyone, what more the one you like! truth is, you are shy, and the difficulty to speak is doubled even harder upon you because of the guy you like!
2006-11-10 03:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anna D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have faith in what you do and say. Be assertive. This is the only way. No one can do this for you. It has to be done by you.
2006-11-10 03:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a couple shots first, afterwords you wont be able to shut up
2006-11-10 03:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by Paul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋