I have always thought that the right one would just come along and I wouldnt have to worry about anything.
So I concerntrated all my engeries on my career not my love life.
I am now 28 and just really worried that I am getting old and need to settle down.
I know it sounds so sad but I really think that I should make more of an effort.
2006-11-10 03:46:13 · 20 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will meet the right one when the time is right. Surrounding yourself with work is not smart, leave a little time for fun and play. Go out on some nights. Take weekend vacations, relax a little!! you will find your partner in crime :)
2006-11-10 03:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not start now? You can't live that life of "all work and no play", ya know. Although, I must commend you for working hard. That's good. You have to "do you" before you can do anything else. So now I'm assuming that you should have your career under control by now, so why not get out there in the dating scene? Don't expect to meet Mrs. Right on you first night out though. This may take more time and effort that what you've already put into your job. As a 30 year old, I don't see 28 as being "old". You have plenty of time to do what you want as far as your social/love life is concerned. I must tell you that your chances of finding that lucky lady are that much better since you seem to be already "established". Good luck to you in your search for the love of your life!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-10 11:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not old! usually i hear this kind of talk from women, and women in some ways do feel it more because of the biological clock amongst other things.
You are still a young whipper snapper and have got plenty of time to find somebody special.
It is a bit worrying that you seem to think that you work and do little else however. Perhaps you should take a holiday or try a new sport or something. All work and no play is not going to make you happy. So do something you enjoy for the sake of it at least once a week!
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2006-11-10 11:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by lady_sephie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A popular question! Seems we all have our opinion and mine is this: in this modern day we all seem to be obsessed with 'getting the successful career' and 'finding the good relationship' because we are told this is what we should do and that's best, but we all get so caught up in the goals and the future that we forget that we should be enjoying our life, however that may be.
In my experience, life is for living. When you really start to enjoy the living of life, instead of focusing on what you should do and when, you will find that everything falls into place without strain. The right partner will come along without you having to force the issue. You are still young! Carpe diem!
2006-11-10 12:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by wildfirenisa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off - 28 is not old! So you've established a good career behind you and seem to be well settled in life?
Then now is the time to look for that special someone. Depending on your interests and type of women - you should know where you need to start looking - is it a club - or a golf club? Just start visiting these places to meet a like minded lady and you'll find someone in no time! good luck! xx
2006-11-10 11:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good to have yourself in a good career and worry about your work, but in order for you to meet somebody you are going to have to make time to put yourself in social situations. Does not mean you have to go out and start a hunting for a woman, just means that maybe you should go out more and meet new people. This will give you the opportunity to meet different types of people and establish new relationships, which could become friends or maybe more.
I always find that when you look to hard, you dont usually find love, like you said it will just come along. Thats true, except for the fact that if your never anywhere to meet anybody its impossible.
2006-11-10 11:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like you from what I can see from this question! You're sensible and obviously have a good career behind you, so I think you'll find someone easily. How about making sure you at least have a couple of night's out a week, just incase Miss Right happens to be out too?
2006-11-10 11:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life in general doesn't just fall in your lap. You have to work on all the things you want in your life. At the age of twenty eight you are still very young, but you may want to consider going out and socializing to meet some people. Working hard is highly commended, but one needs to have a life, also. You should be proud of yourself for your accomplishments in your career, now it's time to commit some time to extra curricular activities, because they won't come to you just like that. Life is for those who seek it out not for those who wait for it to happen.
2006-11-10 11:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by HGS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should! However, you won't make more of an effort until you're ready to start a relationship. You'll know when the time is right, although is sounds like you're ready now. Best of luck!
2006-11-10 11:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All work and no play that's an old saying.
I think the answer is to try and balance your life style to much work you can miss out, try and put your energy into more leisure activities.
2006-11-10 12:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by redditch b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋