He acts like he is interested and goes out of his way to come by the office to come and see me but he has a girlfriend.
2006-11-10 03:42:35 · 9 answers · asked by rachael s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here, imagine this....
You finally get his attention. You give him everything you can. Your kids even like the guy and look forward to him coming over.
Then, suddenly, he calls you and says, "oh sorry, I found a new girlfriend at the office. I've been going to her desk to see her so I think I will go out with her now."
If this guy has a girlfriend, then what are you thinking? Just smile and be nice to him and wait to see if he dumps the other girl BEFORE he makes moves on you. If he has a girlfriend and he is showing too much interest to you NOW then what does that tell you about this guy? He is a playboy and will be that way even if YOU show him that you do exist and he leaves his current girlfriend for you?
2006-11-10 03:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa. i was in a similar situation at my job. I let him go. to be honest any way the scenario pans out; it cant be good. he has a girlfriend and you are a single parent. you should be the one with the head on her shoulders. dont go for someone who is already involved. you dont want to be the "other woman" with all that you have on your shoulders already...when you are a single parent, you want a meaningful relationship with someone who is going to mean something to your kids...dont do it dont do it dont do it!
2006-11-10 11:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by kcrobinson03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, he knows you exist, a;; you've gotta do is show some interest... ask questions, like what are you doing this weekend?
maybe that'll let him know you're interested in him too... Good Luck!
2006-11-10 11:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say to wait and see how their relationship goes. if its bad then make your move. if its not and everything is well between them than there are other guys other times and other opportunities.
2006-11-10 11:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he has someone just keep your eyes peeled and maybe try a dating service....let men pursue you...good profiles help alot...dont get graphic or loose...be a lady but alot can be said with very few words
2006-11-10 11:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him the goods, that is the only way you can get men to respect you
2006-11-10 11:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by Paul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on---u don't want to be the reason for someone elses break up...and besides he may think (due to the fact that u have 2 kiddos) that u are easy....
2006-11-10 11:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just flirt and talk with him when he comes by..
2006-11-10 11:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay....girlfriend.
2006-11-10 11:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by Cowgirl Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋