If you were good friends with someone for a year and you found out they were divorced with 3 kids and had bipolar and sleeping with a man who had been living with his girlfriend for past 3 years. If you then found out your friend was sleeping with about 2 other men and you told first guy she was would you ever forgive them?
2006-11-10 03:37:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm just worried about her behaviour really, i think she is off her meds
2006-11-10 03:41:41 · update #1
Call the "Springer Show"
2006-11-10 03:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would forgive, but I wouldn't go on as if nothing had happened, that's the sign that you need to move on in life, get new friends and a trustworthy girlfriend.
2006-11-10 11:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Chloe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be trying to forgive someone who is doing something that doesnt have anything to do with you? You should love your friend and be there for your friend regardless. You dont judge your friends, you just be there whenever they need you. You might not agree on the subject, but that shouldnt stop you guys from being friends or anything stupid like that.
Only becuz you dont agree with what they are doing, doesnt mean stop being their friend and stop being there for them.
2006-11-10 11:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not sure i understand so much what exactly your asking....you are saying you have a female friend sleeping around? if that is what i'm geting form it, then what do you have to forgive them for what did she do to you, iwould be a lil worried to if she is off her meds. but that is it, don't sound to be there is anything to forgive your friend for, but if you are a true friend then be a friend and talk to this person
2006-11-10 12:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by dom_parnell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like to me you need assistance in people pointing out the obvious to you. The simple answer to your question is NO.
I have a feeling though that this is not a good answer in your mind and you're going to follow your heart instead and be even more disappointed later.
TX Guy
2006-11-10 11:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its her life, she's divorced, she can do what she wants. but... it might be a sign that her meds arent working. talk with her. there is nothing wrong with playing the field, especially if you've been thru a rough marriage, you might not want to get back into a real relationship. people sleep around, its no reason to hate them forever. its not like she was sleeping with your man, right?
2006-11-10 11:41:31 · answer #6 · answered by mickey g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to forgive yourself first.
You are filled with rage. You are acting judgmentally toward someone you claim is your friend.
You would do better to look inside for the root of your superiority and anger, than to consider whether or not you have the authority to "forgive" others.
2006-11-10 11:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be asking is your friend would forgive you for telling the first guy. What your friend does is her business, if she didnt want to tell you she was bipolar and who she was sleeping with, thats on her, it has nothing to do with you unless you were sleeping with her.
2006-11-10 11:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
would i be forgivin u cause you told? if yes then it would take sometime cause you suppose to be my friend and u shouldnt have ran ur mouth but if u werent a close friend and u really dont mean that much to me then i rather no talk to u cause you were not a friend to me and u felt the same as i did cause u told
2006-11-10 11:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by Tasty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand, why, if this person is your friend, you would want to meddle in her personal business. If that's your idea of friendship, I'm extremely glad I'm not your friend! Friends don't judge each other, they accept you as you are!
2006-11-10 11:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not actually involved with any of them, what's the problem? Your friends sexual activities are not really your business.
2006-11-10 11:43:01 · answer #11 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋