if u are really shy and are in a group of friends and look at one of the girls and she looks at u,and then both of u's look away,is it cus like her? wud u be flattered if she came over to u and asked u out or something(not infront of friends though) thanks! xx
2006-11-10 03:19:45 · 14 answers · asked by *cutie with a bootie* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so should i do it?
2006-11-10 03:22:24 · update #1
oh,and he hasnt had a gf b4
2006-11-10 03:22:44 · update #2
ya,i think i shud talk to him 1st
2006-11-10 03:24:08 · update #3
I would be very flattered, however, don't get upset if the guy has trouble answering. Don't close in on him, let him know that you would like to talk. Keep that personal space distance until he decides to open up. And if it doesn't work out, you haven't lost anything by trying. Good Luck.
2006-11-10 03:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Brad 56 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I would definately be flattered if you came up to me and asked me out. I'm a pretty shy guy and sometimes find it hard to make the first move. If he looks at you and then looks away suddenly he probably fancies you. Go for it
2006-11-10 11:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, I would say yes I am interested in her. I would want to talk with her a little bit first. I would be flattered if she came up to talk to me but asking me out right off the bat just seems scary.
2006-11-10 11:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by joe19 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm very shy. And I do the same thing. What I really would like to do in that situation is talk to the girl I'm looking at but if I know I'm not able to for whatever reason, nervousness or whatever, I'm hoping she talks to me.
2006-11-10 11:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Masta Batang Dollar Billz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im the shyest guy that anyone of my friends know and when girls ask a guy out they are soposed to be flattered because most most guys ask girls out and when i girl asks a guy out then that says something about the guy. if it was me i would be flattered but i might be to shy to answer lol
hope that helped
2006-11-10 11:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by eygpt123 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was just checking you out. All guys do that. He might have turned away so you wouldn't think he wants you or something. Or maybe he turned away cuz he's embarrassed you caught him looking at you. Not enough details to answer i guess.
2006-11-10 11:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got a shy guy like that, if you are interested, you best approach him, he's probably not going to get up the guts to ask you. My guy was so sweet once I got to know him, and he opened up to me!
2006-11-10 11:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be put off if you directly ask him out. I think you should say. "If you asked me out to (whatever), I would probably say yes."
I think that is a very cool way to say it. And if that isn't enough for him, he is a dweeb and you don't want him anyway.
2006-11-10 11:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be embarrassed that a girl looked at me at the same time that I looked at her. If she asked me out, I would be embarrassed and stunned that she did that. Ladies, email me at johnluisduffy@yahoo.com
2006-11-10 11:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Firefighting Hero 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well go ahead , or try making him comfortable shy guys are worth it they have deep respect for women and their shyness is compensated with other features
2006-11-10 11:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by jaz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋