Guys, what does a girl have to look and act like for you to fancy them?Pls tel me...?

Answer 1

I personally don't really have a "type" so to speak; it's all about loyalty & being a genuine person for me.

Really skimpy clothes or allowing yourself to be uncomfortable for the sake of fashion (e.g. wearing summer clothes, and no coat in winter when you know you're going to be really cold but you do it to pull or 'cos the other girls are doing it); that just irritates me.

You have to be able to look after yourself and know where to draw the line before you can look after yourself & there's only so much self-compromise (within reason) that's sensible.

It would be nice if the girl has the same ideas as i do, or the same views in life, but I love being around people who have a different take on things to me: it gives us something to talk about!!

I say be yourself, be principled, know where you're willing to compromise and not, and be happy to look after someone while not being a carpet and also be ready to take some looking after too (without abusing your man)

that's attractive. anyone who doesn't think so probably doesn't think with the right organs...

Answer 2

Sorry to say it but there are no clear cut answers. You just see a girl and something about her catches your eye. It is a combination of things. Ten guys could look at a group of 20 girls and each one of them could point out a different girl as the "most attractive". By and large, men like girls to stay in shape, dress well, put some effort into your appearance, and act like a lady. The rest is just a combination of your smile, your eyes, your heart, and your curves! Just always be you, that way when a boy shows interest you will know why and you won't have to try and fake anything... good luck... men like all women :)

Answer 3

Well the worst thing is being caught flirting with too many guys, as the previous guy then feels less special and like that is your normal behavour ... I love people watching and this is one major turn off trust me (like for example if you smile at one guy, chat, plennnnnnty of eye contact laugh at his jokes .... only to repeat the performance 5 minutes later, trust me you have wasted the previous performance)

Also to attract you have to dress well & compliment the bod you were given in what you are wearing i.e. great legs - wear a skirt, great top half = be alluring with it, don't wear horizontal stripes unless your skinny etc basic stuff...

When it's time ot go for the kill - you just need to mention subtly what a romantic creature you can be, timed correctly IT will communicate that you are receptive to him without screaming "i'm a tart". And here's how .... the sentance starts with 'I love it when someone ............. ' and you have to put in the end of the sentance according to something you have noticed about him, his 'strong' hands maybe? or Maybe his eyes? If your really out of idea's you could love it when you get to share a box of chocolates with someone special. The idea is to put you and him in a 'clique' together. Men love being helpful which is why these things can often start well after you have chosen him to open a jar for you, therefore having singled him out from all the other men as the strong one - and you are in effect playing him a compliment!

If you are nervous and think it's going horribly wrong - blame the glass of wine you just had. Blokes read this (sometimes) as " I don't normally get like this ..... " therefore excusing you from the situation."

Persevere though with your eye contact or you can forget the rest. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Depends on the bloke.

We all go for pneumatic blondes with long legs who don't like wearing very much.

Sexiest thing of all is confidence - a bird who not only catches your eye, but looks right back at you with a smile which lets you know EXACLTY what she is thinking.

Now that is what you want to go for - guys will fancy you, and probably not know quite why.

Have a go, and see what happens. THere, on your way home, you have to try it on (with) several blokes.

NB don't just stare at people unsmilingly as they'll think you're a weirdo. And you may not want to try it in London anyway...

Answer 5

Not too bothered by looks, not into serious women, gotta have a sense of humour. Sensitive but intelligent with it, so they dont freak out over some assumed insult when you meant something completely different. Could go on, in danger of writing an essay here, just try asking him out, if he says no, move on, yes it hurts but only for a few days.

Answer 6

First, DON'T be stuckup. Try to be open and honest with everyone. Don't suck up to the cool friends and dump on the not cool ones, just to make yourself look cool. Truly good people will notice if you are warm and kind to ALL people.

Be thankful for what you have and not always wish for more. Continue to improve yourself, but don't be crazy about wanting more always.

As for what to look like...be clean and neat. You can dress a little sexy or flirty but don't be a tramp. Good luck sweetie.

Answer 7

It's not all about looks! Be friendly, funny and not too bossy. Be sexy too. Being sexy and good looking are two different things. Also, speak your mind and have your own opinions. Just be yourself.

At the end of the day, if he still doesn't like / take an interest in you, move on!

Answer 8

The reality is , Slim ( not really what you think but a great fit body ) , really atttractive , dark hair and a great personality thats secure and not a needy anoying dork and providing she impresses me the girl will have a chance .

Answer 9

You dont hav 2 chage in any respect. possibilities r that u wil b 'common' with the girls in later years as those 'cool' infants usually drop out of faculty or get a crap job in existence. Slang and funky clothing won't b as common wen u r older. only b friendly n talk 2 females as though they have been only like ur pals from college n ultimately u wil get a gf.

Answer 10

The manners of a lady, and the morals of a ally cat ( Behind closed doors)