See there is this guy that i like but one minute he acts like he dosent know me the like the next week he starts to talk to me i just dont know what dose that mean because Im getting sick of it.
2006-11-10 02:59:23 · 16 answers · asked by Ms. lemond♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, either he's playing mind game or he has someone else to play with. either way, you don't want to be any part of it. there are tons of guys out there for you. and once you starts to hang out with your friends more and forget about him, he'll be right there wanting your attention. trust me.
2006-11-10 03:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any time a guy is r unning hot and cold, you should keep moving. Be friendly, but no need to be a doormat for someone to mistreat you. Please don't get into that habit either. I will offer this to you as a way of knowing when a boy/man is on your crush list and which to give the time of day to and which to keep rolling past. A guy who is interested in you will make sure he is available to you when YOU need him to talk to, go out with, study with do cartwheels for. A boy will pick his buddies over you. A guy who likes you will make sure you know it and will even show off, sometimes doing rather spectacularly stupid things to make sure you look, or rather sweet things to get your attention. A boy will pull your pants down and laugh. A man who likes you will make sure you are comfortable, will help with doors and coats. A boy will make you carry his stuff for him, pick him up from the bar, and do his laundry. A man will think of you first when making social engagements ("can my girlfriend come too?"). A boy will tell you, after you find out he's going to a football game with his drunken sots for friends on your birthday and you are such a drag that he forgot cause you didn't remind him or he forgot if you said that day or some other day. A man will think of you throughout the day and think of reasons to call you, text you or find something shiney to give you. A boy will have lost his cell phone, was somewhere he couldn't get reception, was too busy having a good time, or working to have a minute to think of you. Think about it and try to pick wisely my dear. There is nothing worse than strapping your fate to a falling star. Its a much nicer life for you and your potential children to have a MAN who is stepping up to the plate to look after you and a family then it is to be trying to retrain the boy who is dragging you down with every breath he sucks out of you. Think about it and next time you have a crush, see if they are responding like a man or a boy and guide yourself accordingly. Good luck my dear!
2006-11-10 11:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through this before too. It sounds like he doesn't know what he wants, and TRUST me, you don't want to get involved with someone like that. Either he is totally into you, or he isn't. You don't want to be with someone who is hot and cold like that now, because what's he gonna be like if you guys ever do get together! Never settle for anyone who isn't completely into you. You are worth more than that. I think you should move on, I'm sure there are plenty of guys who would love to be with you.
2006-11-10 11:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by fiorie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be crushing on you. Maybe his avoidance of you means that he's too nervous or embarrassed... or maybe he knows you like him and he just doesn't want to lead you on. But the best thing to do is talk to him... Suggestion: "Hey, why do you ignore me like one day and then not ignore me the next?" (playfully... like a joke, or teasing) You don't want to get him out of your mind if he truly likes you... :-) Good luck!
2006-11-10 11:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by Chocolate_swirls18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun.. all i have to say is. boys are stupid. they do uhm yah stupid things. do you like him. or do you LOVE him. if hes worth it. then try . and try and try. and let him know your interested. if hes popular, he might just not have alotta time for you(which sounds bad, but its true). He probably doesnt mean anything by talking to you only on certain weeks. he probably doesnt realize thats what hes doing. If you've been liking him, and trying over and over for over a month.. then it might be time to pull yourself together and move on. but if you just cant. then dont. its all up to your heart.
2006-11-10 11:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by xPEANUTx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying, if you snooze you lose. It sounds like either he's playing games or he's really shy. Life is to short for games. You could just ask him, or else move on to other interest. If he can't figure it out, then its his loss.
2006-11-10 11:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't give your age, but there is a very high chance that he is busy remembering his homework and other stuff about school. I suggest you study harder and stop trying to read his mind.
2006-11-10 11:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this can mean two things. maybe he doesn't know that you like him or he's just playing hard to get. but you can choose to move on or tell him how you feel about him listen to what his anwer will be. just don't keep speculating.
2006-11-10 11:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by ABIgale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is keeping you as an option when he cant get another girl, i have done this befor to guys, and girls, so i would just say move on. before you get too hurt.
2006-11-10 11:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by harasgirl2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be easier to move on if you just talk to him about it. Perhaps he's just as confused about how you feel about him.
2006-11-10 11:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by czekoskwigel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋