Have you been involved with people who you knew it would/could never work with? How did it end? How did it leave you feeling: glad for the times you'd spent together or just sadder cos you knew what you were missing? I want to hear all your bittersweet stories.(Am I allowed to ask so many sub-questions? Lol)
2006-11-10 02:56:20 · 9 answers · asked by teary chocolate 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah!!
i went out with a single mum because she had a fabulous personality and we clicked...
We could never have gone anywhere with it our religions were different, our friends and families wouldn't have approved and neither of us was ready for anything stable...
but when we were together we made each other click...
i've not really gone out with anyone who's ideologically different, overly materialistic, just for sex or anything like that though...
& you can ask me sub questions about anything, so long as I can ask them back!
2006-11-10 03:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I was 26 doing a Phd she was 18 and one of the students I demonstrated to. Knew it would never last but was a fun 4 months, she did the dumping but so I suppose I'm still glad for the times we spent together
2006-11-10 11:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Gary B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We weren't properly involved, but I used to really fancy my housemate at Uni. I wish we'd never kissed, because any time he gave me hug or did something sweet, I was really upset that I knew we weren't going anywhere. It was really hard when I left Uni, knowing I would never see him again.
Now though, I am with my first boyfriend, and things are wonderful. Very glad now that nothing happened with my housemate, as this may not have been so special. Things happen for a reason- hate it when my Mum says that, but it seems to be true!
But one last time let's go there...Lay down beside me...such a good song. It's on the radio now- how weird is that?
2006-11-10 11:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by jowigley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look at my last question for my answer!
i knew he didnt want commitment but still stayed with him fell in love and now heartbroken, but i dont regret it we had a wicked time together, the old cliche is true better to have lost and loved than not loved at all! i wish the bloody sad and crying bit would go away though :(
2006-11-10 11:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been involved with people I knew it would never work with and on both occasions the relationship has just sort of fizzled out because there wasn't a spark or chemistry there. It just sort of died. I didn't feel sad or upset, I just moved on. However, because there was no real closure there I do still think of them sometimes and when I see them, the physical attraction is still there!
2006-11-10 11:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 17 i met a guy who was 7 yrs older than me, he had a good job and looked after me, however my parents didnt like him and attempted to make me stop seeing him. i ended up moving in with him to spite my parents and stayed with him for 4 yrs just so they couldnt say "i told you so". i knew the whole time we werent going anywhere and that i would eventually leave him. when i left hi it was a relief because the relasionship was becoming a huge strain, i was physically and emotionally drained. now i miss him as a friend as we could always talk about everything
2006-11-10 14:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by foxyasfcuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont talk to Ex's but my last one has really got under my skin and I miss her.
2006-11-10 11:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think its part of life, some people are only meant to be in your life for a short time - fall in love as often as you can :-)
2006-11-10 11:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by anna63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should why not
2006-11-10 10:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋