so this morning I checked his voice mail..and I finally have confirmation that my guy has been cheating on me..and she works in the same building as us..she left him a message saying: hey honey, let me the first to say good morning, I am sorry if I snap at you sometimes, I appreciate you, I love seeing you when I walk through the building, you make my day...give me a call later...
this the same Bi**h that left him other messages..and I am 100% sure she is the same chick that bought him Jordan sneakers...
I have asked my guy time and time again if he was cheating he told me repeatly no...
I am very good person and very beautiful inside and out..I dont deserve this...I am having lunch with him today..in a few minutes..how should approach him about this.....
2006-11-10 02:55:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just want to say thank you yahoo users for keep it real with me..I appreciate your help..thank you...when someone cheats in a relationship it is very hard to deal with.
2006-11-10 03:24:03 · update #1
I spoke to him and I believe him..theres nothing going on..I think that she wants him..he told her thathe has a girlfriend..and when I confornted her she said that she knew about me...ok so where is the respect..why leave a message like that on my mans phone..
2006-11-10 07:03:43 · update #2
um...dont ask people that dont know your situation for advice. i am not trying to be mean...but only you know whats best for you and for your life. in my opinion though...i would walk away from this relationship....if he has lied about this, there is no telling what else he has lied about. cheating is something to take seriously. god only knows what kind of diseases that she could have given to him, therefore given to you. good luck and do what you think is right...not what complete strangers are telling you to do
2006-11-10 03:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't let this be another Maury story, "Is my man cheating?" Heck yeah he is. Sounds like your smart, young and beautiful, don't let some low down dirty pig treat you like this. And obviously he has no remorse, or even care for you as much as you cared for him (at one point in the relationship I'm sure) or he wouldn't have made it so easy for you to find out.. My suggestion is kick him to the curb and give a real man a chance to make you happy, and be satisfied with the wonderful person you are.. Now if you two live together don't break it off until you get a chance to collect everything that's yours (and of value) in the home , if he lives with you pack his crap, change the locks and tell him to go live with your co-worker, "Since she appreciates him so MUCH" Good luck sweetie make the right choice for your future life NOT HIS!!
2006-11-10 03:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by jillybean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should smile at him as tho nothing is wrong and then when the two of you are sitting down and he thinks he is smarty, you look at him, smile and say "I have been cheating on you, oh hold on thats you!!!" you will see the look on his face and wish yopu could put it on a T-shirt.
Tell him that she came to see you and told you all about it, dont give dates and times tho, you could shoot yourself in the foot, but make him believe that you know. He will admit it, men are dumb and then you can say, well I didnt know, but I do now.
Leave him
Let me know how you get on
Good Luck, and you are too good for him, but it will be hard and i wouldnt wish this sh*t on anyone
XX
2006-11-10 02:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by carrienicholson23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be a very good person but you aren't very smart. Rather than writing a miniseries on Yahoo Answers about the trial and tribulations of your relationship, why not just tell your man off and end things with him???
If you have enough sense to banter on here then you should have enough sense to know what to do.
2006-11-10 03:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You went through his voice mail because you don't trust him. Okay, now what does that say about the core of your relationship? Either you are incredibly insecure in the first place or he deserved not to be trusted. No matter which it is, the relationship is broken.
Tell him you know that he prefers to see multiple women and that is okay, but you won't be one of them. Then move on.
2006-11-10 03:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have lunch peacefully. After finishing just tell him you want to know more about the girl he is dating. Ask him why he is cheating you. Ask him how will he feel if you do the same to him. Try to talk to him in low tone and dont make any fuss publicly.
2006-11-10 03:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she the bi**h? It is your bf that is cheating. Don't allow yourself to be used this way. Get on to another day and leave the bf out in the cold to use another female that doesn't have the courage to dump him either.
2006-11-10 03:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you heard his voicemail, come out and bust him then move on with your life without him, now that you have caught him in the act of cheating with someone in the building, tell him you caught him and tell him its over with to pack his things and move on with out you, you are better person you deserve better, so move on hopefully all that hate right now will give you that boost you need to move on without an @ss like him. Good Luck!
2006-11-10 02:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sucks that you checked his voicemail. Not cool. However, you caught him. Confront him about it, just ask him whats really going on, and say you're not gonna put up with it. Stand up for yourself and dont let him walk all over you. Good luck!
2006-11-10 02:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by edu_jr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and tell him you know and the fact that he is treating you this way and lying to you just goes to show how much he cares. Leave him and dont look back... because you are right you dont deserve that... no one does
2006-11-10 02:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋