I have been dating this girl for over a month now. We have been having sex everyday, and until 3 days ago it was great. I had no problems getting it up or keeping it up. We even would have sex 3-5 times a day if time permitted. Now all the sudden Im having trouble keeping it up. Is it possible Im just worn out and need a few days without sex? I cant figure out why I was able to go multiple times before and now I cant even make it work.
2006-11-10 02:54:43 · 23 answers · asked by ajwpoet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. But you do not have ED. Give him a break. Take her to a movie or something. Worrying about it will make it worse. It could also be because of a medication you are taking or something on your mind. She needs more than just sex. Work on other parts of your relationship. Don't worry, Be happy. You will return to normal again soon.
2006-11-10 03:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by kstfas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - get birth control. 3 to 5 times a day is a lot if you do that every day. You may want to try some variety in what you do...i.e. more manual or oral for you and/or her. That way you may be able to cut down on the actual emissions...and that may give you some needed rest while still pleasing her.
Also, who says that you two have to hook up every day? Take a day off once in a while.
If you continue to have problems getting it up you may need to do some reading on ED. If that doesn't help see a doctor...don't be shy.
2006-11-10 03:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, that's not the reason. The reason is, maybe you feel scared or guilty. It's a very psychological thing, once physical reasons are proven out (and you clearly don't have a physical reason that developed in the last three days. Sex doesn't cause ED).
Examine your relationship. Maybe this is something you shoul be saving for marriage, and deep down you know that...
2006-11-10 02:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definatly say you're having too much sex. I mean, that's not even neccessary! Plus, yes, you are not giving the blood flow a chance to recycle and move through your body!
My gosh! You're going to run out of sperm before you have a chance to make babies! (Or you're about to make a baby with all that sex...watch out!)
Ease up, take a break for like a week and then only do it like 5 days, 2 times a day TOPS!
2006-11-10 02:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is totally unusual because of the fact ED usually won't be able to are available in few days and in a youthful very lively subject even! attempt to provide up heaving intercourse for an afternoon (this is very much adequate) and then have back intercourse with that exciting woman! in the case you will artwork solid and long back... this is effective... c'mon play the sphere! in any different case, you sexual existence would be jeopardized irreparably!
2016-10-21 14:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point, our system not necessarily fails but does need time to recover from continuous activity.
The feeling is psychological. you may be having too much sex that it disinterested you momentarily.
The everyday routine may be nice but its not good most of the time. Don't abuse/overuse that machine, it also wears down.
2006-11-10 02:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by Dave S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a common, normal thing to happen.
You don't need a viagra or anything.
If you are worn out, you will feel it in other areas too,
and I don't think you can get that worn out.
There is something going on mentally.
maybe one of you is giving off a subtle message,
maybe it is due to an aroma that is subconscious.
Maybe, maybe maybe...but now you are conscious of it
and being self-conscious is killer to sexual urges.
2006-11-10 03:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by dj_of_raleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need a few days to rest because me and my boyfriend have sex everyday and if he starts to not be able to keep it up we take a break for a few days then sex is great again.
2006-11-10 02:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the novelty has worn off, or the viagra. It doesnt matter anyway, my gf and i used to do it that much the first couple months, now I am lucky to get it at all, 3-5 times a week is about all im permitted.
2006-11-10 02:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha ha ha!!! What are U? a machine!! You seriously need to consult a doctor. Something could be wrong. A woman that wants sex that much? Ooooo, kinda scary!!!!
2006-11-10 03:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by cold runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋