recently i had an anxiety attack when my sister invited me for dinner at her very rich, very royal friend's house and I was sooo scared i almost fainted! why is that? we didnt go anyway...
2006-11-10 02:50:19 · 17 answers · asked by Shasha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because deep down you know you are nothing.....
2006-11-10 02:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Royals... Money for generations Don't worry. usually good people.
The ones on the boders of it... Not really rich .. just a little rich are the scary ones.
They are always looking for an edge to get richer.
In my experiences those that have been rich for a long time are pretty good people. They really don't know they are or care.
Some you would even have a hard time telling they had money.
It's that upper middle class you gotta keep an eye on. They will knife you in the back.
2006-11-10 02:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's likely you feel inadequate around these people. Don't.
Whether by "very royal" you mean actually born into a royal family (which simply means having an ancestor who was particularly brutal and willing to take whatever he wanted) or simply a pompous *ss who has delusions of grandeur, remember that these people have nothing to put themselves in that class but money and a lucky birth. Does that make them "better" than you? Certainly not. Polish up your manners as you would having dinner at anyone's home and enjoy yourself. But above all, BE YOURSELF. Don't put on airs to impress people, you don't have to. You're as good as them, without the inherited money and llucky birth, that is.
2006-11-10 02:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by wineboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you feel intimidated, and scared of what they would think of you because you know your not as rich as they are. So what material things and money is nothing. Always keep this in your mind that: Just because someone has more material possesions then you do that dosen't make them any better then you are.Your just as good as them if not better. Never lower your self esteem for anyone even if they may have more then you keep your head up don't be scared of what others think of you. There's no difference except they may have more money. If you take away everything that makes them rich what do they have? Many who have alot of material possesions are often very shallow, self assuming, single minded, and love to brag, or think there better than others. Because of this it causes many people to feel afriad or ashamed causing them to think they do not meet the same standards or requirements. just the thought of it can cause one to become uneasy. Don't be scared though their just people.
2006-11-10 04:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Drey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an inferiority complex. You think that simply because people have money and some type of title they are better than you. That is most definitely NOT TRUE!!! Money and titles don't make a good person. In most cases people are simply to high on themselves because of their titles and money. If you are a good, kind and considerate person, you have more wealth than any amount of money or titles can buy. You should be proud of yourself and who you are. You shouldn't be scared, but be proud to be who you are.
2006-11-10 03:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by HGS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rich people are quick to judge others when in reality they are no different than anyone else. Do you feel inferior around them? Trust in yourself and you wont be afraid of who you mingle with.
2006-11-10 02:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your a medeoker class woman so you just never been to a rich persons house and are shocked you get to go and you probably have this felling that all rich people are mean and stuck up and don't care about anyone but themselves
2006-11-10 02:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by stephiepoohbearcats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u feel a bit ashamed that u're not THAT rich. but don't think much bout it. it doesn't matter. but remember that u can make useful contacts for ur future if mingling with rich ppl)- look at it from the optimistic side
2006-11-10 02:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by Kanade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completly normal to feel like that. It's being taken out of your "comfort zone", I am like that at first with people when you first meet them. You don't know how to take them and they don't know how to take you. I mean think about it, is it just rich people that you feel that way about or is it any stranger? Just be yourself and don't worry, I mean at worst if EVERYTHING goes wrong ...at least you will have a funny story right?!! ;) lol
2006-11-13 10:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by dazed*n*confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe there's is that its-bits insecurity within you that goes out every time your with rich people..you feel that you are not with same level with those people and you feel nervous or ashamed perhaps to talk to them,that you feel it's more like of a privilege if you Talk to them,that it was like more a "cool" thing to do..yeah right..lol!!
here I can tell you,
just relax..they don't bite..and don't be prejudice,
yeah..they are rich,but that doesn't mean they won't like your company,right?how will you ever know if you won't try and open your mouth to talk?..try to mingle with them..and then you'll find out that they are just mere human,too..like you!
2006-11-10 03:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by kAyXeE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are of a different level, upbringing, catagory, etc... and you were simply worried they'd judge you. Some rich folks are completly down to earth though so give it a try and see what happens!
2006-11-10 02:53:20 · answer #11 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋