There is this girl in my class that asked me to dance with her and I turned down. I told her that I wasn't in the mood. At the time she asked me for a dance, she was in a relationship. It seems that she likes me.I might add that she recently told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. I am perplexed. What should I do? Should I make the move. Mind you I'm afraid of rejection
2006-11-10 02:48:27 · 8 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Youre afraid of rejection, but yet, you rejected her, how do you think that made her feel?
2006-11-10 02:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Barbi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is a part of life. It sucks, but everyone experiences it and it can make you a better person. Why not ask her if she asked you to dance because she was interested in getting to know you or if she asked you to dance because she just wanted to dance and you were available. If you're intersted in her, then go for it. You can't go through life being scared of everything and not take chances. Your life will suck if you do.
2006-11-10 02:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by deepvioletfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her on a date. Today. Don't wait. Don't fear rejection, it only stings for a while. The chance of her saying yes and you liking each other far outweighs the risk of rejection, doesn't it? Plus, if she ultimately rejects you, that's just another oppurtunity to date someone who likes you back.
2006-11-10 02:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Tara P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody likes rejection, but sometimes we have to take the risk in order to get what we want. Take no risks and you can end up having a pretty lonely, boring life.
2006-11-10 02:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is showing she is in to you then why not go for it. If you have feelings for her try it. I would not worrie about rejection that the one thing that stops us all from having fun and living life happy. I would say some thing to her. good luck............
2006-11-10 02:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never know what she'll think of you, r whether u have the chance with her if you dont have the gut's to try.....rejection is just the way of life..... u have to feel that emation somedy somehow..... how will you ever know if she's the right one for you if u dont take the chance... think bout it ..... be a man n take that chance....nothing to lose babe.
2006-11-10 02:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by liyana s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do ya wanna go out with her or not? if ya do put it out there and ask, she has approached you twice, strike three and yer out!
2006-11-10 02:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by mike g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it.. if you hold on anylonger.....she might just get another bf
2006-11-10 02:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋