there is a guy that i like and i dont know if to ask him out of even if he ask me out if i should do it or not because my faimly and friends think he is anoying and told me i should have better judgement. hes a good guy but he just get a little hiper and crazy sometimes and thats what makes him fun can you help??
2006-11-10 02:48:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-10 04:02:40 · update #1
Be wary.
If your friends agree with your family about a guy...pay attention.
Usually if it's just parents being parents then your friends will tell you to go for it.
I once dated a guy who was "hyper" and really fun. Too much. All the time. He was just too much. He couldn't carry on a normal conversation, or sit still, or behave himself when he really needed to. He also didn't think it was a problem. He was a sweet guy. He just drove me and everyone else crazy! We broke up. I still don't know if it was drugs or if he needed to be on medication. Last I heard, he was hitch hiking his way to California.
Having a friend around that's fun is one thing, but it sounds like he may have other issues. Don't get involved into you know what's going on. Talk to him. Or...at least try to. If he can't have a serious talk with you for 10 minutes, then you'll know something is wrong. Walk away. (I didn't mention it before, but the guy I dated ended up stalking me.) If he seems o.k., tell him you think he's cool and were thinking about asking him out, but wasn't sure how it would go. See if he's in to it.
Just be careful.
2006-11-10 02:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by soccermomw3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to take the advice of family and friends sometimes. Just keep in mind that they see things that you may be blinded from because you like him. Use your own judgement, but just because he is fun and crazy does not make for a relationship.
2006-11-10 02:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by busymomof4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't go through life pleasing other people. It's not your friend and family that are goign to be dating him, it's you and you like him. One thing to keep in mind, though, is your friends and family sometimes do know what's best for you when you cannot see it yourself. Take their comments with a grain of salt, but keep them in the back of your mind. Go on a few dates with this guy and have fun..... it won't hurt and you'll always wonder WHAT IF if you don't do it.
2006-11-10 02:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by deepvioletfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your safety is not in danger, go out with him. Then evaluate whether you should go out again. If you like him and he treats you well everyone will come around eventually. But if he is really crazy - as in mentally ill - best to keep a safe distance. High energy is something altogether different and fun to be around.
2006-11-10 02:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by Tara P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him does not matte what friends and family say to you, go with your heart and do as you pls, when you get older your gonna sit there and say wonder what would my life be if I dated that guy, wonder where I could be right now, all these could have, should have, but didn't try it, whats the worse really do not like him and realize he is only a friend!
2006-11-10 02:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is a decent and good guy that's good to you and cares about you I say GO FOR IT, I'm sure if your family sees how happy he makes you then they ll start to like him more. Hope this helps
2006-11-10 02:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by docboom2386 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I can help. Your family and friends are trying to tell you to study harder in school so that when you ask questions on Y!A, you will have reasonably correct spellings and grammar.
2006-11-10 02:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take an English coaching class, firstly. That'll really help you a lot.
2006-11-10 02:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart, and go with it. If he makes you smile, laugh, give innocent looks to, makes you feel warm, and he is sensitive, then go for it. What do you have to loose. Understand his point that it may be hard to find descent girls too.
2006-11-10 02:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by Brevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u want f everybody else make yourself happy
2006-11-10 02:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by bighcorleone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋