i dont understand how it is possible to get out of a good 2 year relationship and be dating someone else 2 weeks later . . . we broke up for no reason because she "wanted to date around" and was dating basically the first guy that showed interest 2 weeks later . . . .they are still together now but she has been calling/texting/emailing me every 1,2,3 weeks atleast but i have not answered anything from her since june and she is still doing it . . . . is this guy a rebound? and what is going on, why is she trying to contact me like this?
2006-11-10 02:44:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why should you care ?she dumped you now move on.maybe she will change her mind and want you back,then change her mind again later,move on.
2006-11-10 02:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to find out what she is thinking and that is to talk to her and find out. That is the only way you will be able to get over this anyway. Odds are that this guy is a rebound, but what should that matter to you - unless you want to get back together with her. If you don't then just call her back, find out what she wants and tell her that you'd like some space from her - meaning no texts, e-mails, or phone calls for a couple months. That will give you enough time to find your rebound girl.
2006-11-10 10:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by Tara P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were to guess, she knew this guy before you broke up. Maybe he didn't turn out to be all that, but she needs to have someone, anyone. Are the calls, drunk-dials or just random sober calls? She doesn't seem to want to lose you, but wow, you'd think she would have given up by now. She wants her cake and eat it too, it sounds like she can't make up her mind. I would stick with your current plan of action, don't contact her, she's not capable of commitment right now. And if you take her back, this whole scenario will probably happen again.
2006-11-10 10:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by JenJen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did the same thing once or twice, the thing i did it for is i still loved the person, and i didnt really want him to be in another relationship, or to forget about me and then when i would see, i would brake up with the yes, rebound, then get with him. that could be it, but im not like other girls. so it might just be that she misses you. same thing pretty much. ask yourself if you still love her. cuz most likely she will do it again after a while. i know i did. girls can be scandalous
2006-11-10 10:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by harasgirl2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to taste and sample whats out there first. she currently with this guy and now she realizes it is not what she initially thought this new relationship was going to be. that why she is calling you; she wants you back. she is now only with this guy not because she truly digs him but she doesn't want to be alone. so she will settle in this mediocre of a relationship until and hopefully you return her call and take her back.
why should you care if this guy is a rebound? which he is. let him deal with the bullsh*t lies and confusion.
its up to you if you feeling you want to give this person a second chance.
2006-11-10 11:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, could have been a rebound, or maybe she was cheating on you with him and dumped you for him, now she wants to cheat on him again with you. Id say, dont burn your bridges, keep her on call for benefits, but dont ever think to have a relationship with her again that lasts longer than a night. Or answer her calls and see what she wants, maybe she forgot to take her favorite shirt from your place.
2006-11-10 10:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously still have feelings for her. You should reply to her emails then. She probably thought she wanted to try something diifferent but it didnt work out. Give her a chance if you want. Let her know that she hurt you, but dont give up because of that.
2006-11-10 10:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by edu_jr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋