i cheated on my b.f over the summer and he was really hurt. then theres this new girl who is new at school and she keeps bringing it up like its a big deal. all i did was give some one 5 years older than me head.... (im 13). she wouldnt drop it! im like stfu victoria and shes like ur a slut and im like no im not and shes like yes u are. and she wants to get in a fight with me and im like no. really, im scared she will kick my asssssss.... grrrr what do i do?
2006-11-10 01:45:18 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the stars say s l u t
2006-11-10 01:46:03 · update #1
yeah, but like....do i look bovered?
2006-11-10 01:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! You're 13!! You are way too young to even worry about all this s h i t!! Why are you in a hurry to grow up? Sorry to say but at the rate you are going you will a 13- year old mom!! Maybe a kick in a** will make you realize that life is now about giving heads and being in a realtionship and fighting about non-sense things! Plus you wouldn't want to live your whole life known as the s l u t!! Maybe this is what it takes for you to realize what you did to your bf is wrong...integrity and loyalty goes a long way than cheating and being called a s l u t!!
2006-11-10 01:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by Yasmin76 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you cheated on your bf and he's still with you?! You're only 13, and you're doing that! OMG! Just admit you were wrong. You are wrong. Cheating at any age is very bad. She has a point, even though she shouldn't be trying to fight. Just admit you were wrong and how sorry you are about it, and that she has no life because all she can do is but into yours. Tell her to stay out of it, and that you already know you did something wrong.
Please get some help, you need some counseling to find out why you think it's right to do what you did.
2006-11-10 01:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid her and ignore her. When you get addicted to sex, as I am sure you will, you may be considered a slut. You did the right thing by telling your b.f. although you are kind of young to have a b.f. and giving b.js. Don't ever lie to men about the level of your commitment, this is cruel. Adults can be casual, honest and open about these things. Casual sex encourages casual relationships and half hearted friendships. It might haunt you in the long term. It is often good to know the basis of relationship before you make it base with sex.
2006-11-10 01:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by rickybobbie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell the guidance counselor that this girl is making threats to you. Stay away from the girl, if you can. Do not get involved sexually with boys again until you are much older. That boy who you cheated with (if he's five years old and 18) is a MAN. He could be arrested because you are a child and he is an adult. That's against the law, you know.
2006-11-10 01:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away from her and what ever 18 year old let a 13 yr old girl do that is a prevert. You should both be ahamed. Just tell her you made a mistake and your sorry for what you did. Then, just avoid her. If she is harrassing you at school, talk to the principal or the counselor.
2006-11-10 01:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have cheated in the first place, and the only reason an eighteen year old guy would let you is if they were so lame they oculdn't get someone their own age. Since stagitory rape is the coolest way to get laid.
Avoid the girl.
Stop being a little Slut.
Solves everything.
2006-11-10 01:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by WickedScottie 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Only thing for sure here is you sound like your 13.
Your ex-boyfriend should run....not walk....from you. You find it more important to fight with another girl over this than how he feels. Hmmmmmmm
And "ALL" you did was give head? Kind of like shaking hands huh?
Why would anybody be upset about that.
Wake up girl!
Have you found that other guys have gotten real interested in you? Yea! Boys like girls that do that. For a while.
And welcome to the world of reputation.
2006-11-10 01:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is what you do, STOP GIVING 18 YEAR OLDS HEAD WHEN YOUR 13. In the real world that is called rape. Good job you could have messed up that guys life cause you wanted to get off.
2006-11-10 01:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by unglory2006 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well my friend cheating is a big deal, I think you should be mature enough to realise that. You might not think much of it but your boyfriend I'm sure does. Frankly you should ignore her comments and stop being immature by retaliating. Eventually it will stop. By the way you're too young to be having oral sex.
2006-11-10 01:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! What the hell is wrong with kids these days? You are ONLY 13????????? What the heck are you're parents teaching you? You should be ashamed and chill out from doing that sh*t! 13 is what like maybe 7th grade? DAmn, you need to chill the f*ck out or you'll be pregnant by the time you're 15!
2006-11-10 02:04:08 · answer #11 · answered by Jenn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋