ny girlfriend keeps telling me im fat what should i do?

Question

i have been with my new partner now for a little over 2 months
and she keeps telling me im fat she even told my mother i dont know what to think a 16 stone i know im not slim but there are a lot of bigger people out there yours dispairingly

Answer 1

Fart on her

Answer 2

Do you think you are? Is she telling you out of concern for your health or is it because she does not like to be seen with a fat bloke? If it is because she cares about you then she means well but let her know that you don’t appreciate her telling you this all the time. You could both do some gentle exercises that would be helpful and eat healthy meals that would help you lose some weight. However if she’s saying this because she is ashamed of you, then dump her, she’s no good to you.

Answer 3

That is pretty bad that your NY girlfriend told you that. Apparently looks are very important to her and not what is truly inside you. There are a couple of things you can do...1. Start going to the gym and make sure your eating habits are in control OR 2. Talk to her about it...find out what exactly bothers her?? OR 3. If your happy with what you look like then maybe you should find a new NY girlfriend??? Good Luck!!

Answer 4

Good grief, you haven't been with her long and she's already getting her claws in!! Ask her whether it's because she's generally concerned with your health or because she's worried about what other people think!! Is she perfect in every way? I doubt it by the sound of it! If you do decide to lose weight, you make sure you're doing it for your own reasons and not because she wants you to! If she's acting like this now, she'll only find more and more faults time goes on! Be careful!

Answer 5

It's obvious doll heart that someone tortured her this way so now she is passing it down to you, BUT, leave her, don't talk to her because the abuse will only get worse. Her problems are not your problems, okay? She will not be happy or be a better person until she learns to straighten her s--t out. okay, so just shut her mic off and tell her she is dismissed.

Answer 6

Hi

It seems she has a real problem with this, maybe she doesn't like being seen with you in front of her friends.
Only do it if you want to do it, she has to understand she dated you when your the weight you are now.
Talk to her and ask if she has a problem with your weight, and tell her not to keep on, as it can/is hurting your feelings.
If you want to lose weight, you ask her to help or encourage.........and not to keep telling you you're fat.

If she isn't listening....the choice is yours.

Good luck mate

Answer 7

ur nice the way u r. if u elect, u can attempt to lose some lbs, and if u do and he or she keeps making relaxing of you're saying, "am i extremely that fat? i concept i develop into fairly ordinary. before each and every thing it develop into humorous, yet now im hectic about. r u being severe or joking?" basically say it like that. she shouldnt get disenchanted till shes a jerk

Answer 8

At least ur g/f is being honest. Would u rather here it from someone else...or worst...would u want to here it from someone else, that ur g/f told them that ur to fat? Just lose a few pounds, for urself first, then for ur g/f. Good luck :0)

Answer 9

lol if she doesn't feel attracted to you why did she dated you in the first place? but are you fat or just a little chubby? you're like what 200 lb 190lbs something like that? but still either way if you're in bad shape you should start having a healthier diet but not because of your girlfriend...do it for you.

Answer 10

Dump her and lose as much weight as you can and make yourself more attractive then get with a really hot girl or like her sister. That will so that shallow woman!

Answer 11

Get a new Girlfriend, she knew your this way before she started dating you. What is her problem, find you someone that likes you for who you are. The outside should not matter anyway