Supposed 2 be going 2 a wedding, that I really dont want 2 go 2! My mates are having a girlie p*ss up & thats where I want 2 be. I will be classed as the evil b*tch if I dont go 2 wedding, shud I let that bother me?
2006-11-10 01:28:28 · 23 answers · asked by Irishbird3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Yes it should bother you. Dont be so selfish, suck it up and go to the wedding. I am sure you can show up to both
You dont have to stay all night at the wedding reception.
If you miss their wedding dont expect them to show up for yours.
2006-11-10 01:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How do your friends perceive you now? And is that perception important to you? If your answer to the second question is a "yes," then I guess that would mean that you would be keeping your commitment and go to the wedding. If it doesn't really bother you what your friends think, then do what makes you happy. Go with your other friends, you will be happier. I would help though to give a convenient excuse and not tell the wedding friends where you are really going and what you are really up too. Hope this helps, good luck!
2006-11-10 09:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by tedi31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go to both do's. Go to the wedding, make sure that the relevant people see you so that you can't be branded evil. Depending on whether you are going to the reception in the evening, stay for about 1 - 2 hours, making sure that you see who you need to see. Or if you are going to the ceremony and the reception leave about 7.30 - 8.00. This then will hopefully leave you time to go home get changed if you want to and go out with your mates, therefore making everyone happy
2006-11-10 16:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check where your loyalties stand. is it a family wedding, a close friend or a distant friend? Could you do a bit of both or are the venues too far away from each other ?. You could leave the wedding after the first dance for example and go join your friends. How does that sound? Consider your loyalties and decide what you think the best thing to do is.
2006-11-11 18:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by cherub 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have accepted the invitation it would be rude not to go.
My daughter got married 3 weeks ago, 2 people were ill and could"nt come, which was fair enough. But 2 others texted the day before to say they had to go to a christening instead.Dont tell me they did"nt know beforehand.
It was a small venue and costly so they couldn't invite all their friends .Therefore it was annoying to see empty seats.
I am sure there will be other nights with your mates!
2006-11-11 10:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by dancingcar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go out on the lash anytime... Why not spice up the wedding by having a few too many and getting off with the best man or hiding under the table and giving him head during the speeches!
2006-11-10 10:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not show your face at the wedding, take advantage of some free booze to start your evening off and then meet your mates later on? Then you've covered both bases and saved some valuable booze money for later in the evening.
2006-11-10 09:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends if you replied to the invite as going well guess what is it going to be held in a reception hall was the invite addressed to you or your mate if you guess what you must go if to your mate you better tell themate A.S.A.P you are interested in going and don't get upset if your mate goes with someone else. other wise just grin and bare.
2006-11-10 09:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by LIZA P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop bein horny, go do the wedding it only happens once, and ur p*ss ups can happen anytime, so go to the wedding and dont be bothered
2006-11-10 09:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by susu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even consider not going- it's an honor to be invited to a wedding.
2006-11-10 09:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋