When you have sex with a guy how can you tell if he genuinely likes you with what he's doing. How do you tell if he's in bed with you for his own pleasure or because he genuinely likes you. How can you tell if you are being used in bed? What are the signs?
2006-11-10 01:27:30 · 24 answers · asked by Peter W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he says cheers love and gets up and dressed I think that could be a sign of being used.
2006-11-10 01:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can get a good idea of how he feels about you after ejaculation (sorry to be so clinical about it). If he is suddenly cold and not interested in you as a person (this is not necessarily the same as not wanting to cuddle) then it may be because he does not care about you as a person. This is the moment when true feelings are shown. He may have been lovely and charming and sweet even before you were in bed because he is attracted to you and trying to win you over. The other thing to bear in mind is whether he is comfortable with his homosexuality. It might be that his desires lead him into bed with you and then afterwards he feels guilty or bad about himself and then distances himself.
2006-11-10 01:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by teary chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a human being all of us look for our own pleasure it is common for both men and women. Love and being loved is difficult to define and intermingled with self satisfaction and own pleasure. Your question therefore not easy to addressed and it is not easy for a person to predict what his/her mate is interested on. I would rather than analyzing those things take all the pleasure given by the mate. Enjoy the life
2006-11-10 02:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not sure that I should be the one to answer this, as I've never shagged a guy before[well not to my knowledge anyway]. How quickly he leaves after the event is always a good indicate, the quicker he leaves ,the more he's just after the sex. Hope I helped a tiny bit.
2006-11-10 01:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by Tws 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concerns me that you are in bed with people that you aren't sure really like you in the first place. Your gut feeling is usually right. Some people believe casual sex is fine and is nothing more that a handshake. What matter is what you think and why you are having sex with that person.
2006-11-10 01:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by Rita T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the guy attentive at other times? Does he show an interest in what you have to say? Does he call you, or drop by just to visit or say hi? Does he appear to enjoy your company?
If no is the answer to most of these questions, then he is using you for sex.
2006-11-10 01:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by lee17201 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, does he do things with you outside of the bedroom,other than sex, or does he only want you around when sex is involved. If he likes doing things with you outside of the bedroom then he probably is interested in you, but if you're only of use to him for sex then the relationship will never go anywhere.
2006-11-10 01:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by homeiggyred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 11:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by milak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very hard but l you will feel it it is an instinct that tells you about that very particular moment. when you finish if there is the feeling of you are in heaven and this silence follow smooching then he is genuine but if he is in an hurry to get it done with in the first place and over than he is using you. you deserved better.
KNOW THE DIFFERENCE.
2006-11-10 01:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by big time 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Presently, just enjoy the SEX . How lucky are you to get pleasure without demand.
2006-11-10 01:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋