backround- i met this gal last saturday night, we av only txted at the moment. i posted a Q before and realise that i need to ring her instead of constant txts.. Should i arrange a "date/meeting" this soon ??? or just continue to go with the flow, txts/phone calls etc...
We have arranged to meet up at some point, but havent arranged a date.. we are both busy with existing plans
Should i drop my plans and meet her...?
Thanks in advance...
Oh yea she lives about 50 miles from me..
2006-11-10 01:11:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't drop your plans just put her into them, make a date and be romantic and original!, good luck
2006-11-10 01:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by electric_girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you ask a question you should follow two simple rules:
1) Never ask a question that you are not prepared to accept an answer to.
2) Never ask an open ended question.
For example: Instead of "Hey do you want to go out on Sat night" ask, "I am really interested in going out with you, what night are you free?"
She may say "I don't want to go out with you" but that response is better than being strung along with "Oh no I'm busy sat"
If she is that important to you, then drop your plans..
2006-11-10 09:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Triestobewise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say strike while the iron is hot! However, maybe you could drop little hints that you can't wait for you two to meet or something like that, then is she responds positively you could ask her out right then and there, set the time and place etc... If she says no, (I hope not) well, tell her, to tell you when she wants to. Just keep it light and fun.
2006-11-10 09:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her if she was interested in meeting, before getting all anxious. She may not be able to drop her existing plans.
If you want to meet her, call and ask! If she is the girl of your dreams, she will be thrilled at the advancement of your relationship.
2006-11-10 09:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by PanicGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...I think you must continue with your text messgs for few more days atleast..untill you know each other very well...and that will really make you feel comfortable when you guys meet up..Remember slow and steady wins the race:)
2006-11-10 09:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by sanorita_leo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should call her and talk to her instead of texting before you decide to meet her face to face.
2006-11-10 09:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if you like her call her before she slips away drop your plans go meet her
2006-11-10 09:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by Fergie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and tell her that you are willing to drop your plans just to see her and than ask can you come see her
2006-11-10 09:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by equality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAKE A DATE WITH HER .
2006-11-10 09:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should date her, who knows...you might even get lucky =D
2006-11-10 09:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋