i juz broke up wid my boyfriend 2months ago.we have been together for 4 yrs.But there were break ups in between. the reason we broke up was because somehow, there were no more chemistry between us. i mean there still was. But it wasn't as much as before.
it was during a week before we broke up when things started to get rough. I knew that if he starts to like call me less, going out with me less or showing less interest in me, he's in love with another gal.It happened once that he fell in love with another gal when we were still in a relationship! It broke my heart till i didn;t feel like loving him anymore.But during that week, we didn't talk much.He said there was sumthing missing in our lives. then, THE DAY finally came. he wants to break up with me. the reason being we have no more chemistry.so we decided to take a breather for 6mths.By then i had already no feelings for him.He ask 4 patch but i refused cuz i wasn't ready. so after we broke,he finally realised tat i was important
2006-11-10 00:39:13 · 24 answers · asked by lovemusic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Explain to him, you dont want ot be with him anymore. Let him know that you guys are done and over and if y'all want to be friends that is okay. He made a mistake and he had time to consider this b4 falling in (it wuzn't lu so not luv) lust with another girl. Love is forever, and booty calls and lust come and go. Tell him you shoulda stayed with the one you loved in the first place. So you make sure he is clear on that, then move on. Stop being avaliable all the time for him. Dont always answer the fone when he is calling, dont always return fone calls. Show him you dont need him, maybe he'll get it.
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2006-11-10 00:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by caligurrl3634 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I have been you, i'd inform my boyfriend first, then inform him he wants to get her to stop or she relatively isn't going to adore it if i have too. Then i might inform her straight up... I'm sorry it didn't work out with you guys, however perhaps it didn't determine in view that you absolutely should not have very a lot going for you. Considering the fact that all you look to do along with your time is harass me. Mostly people are trying now not up to now humans that have stalking traits... And if the psycho nonetheless persist, i would see about having her number blocked. If that also didn't work for one intent or an extra, i'd beat her down.
2016-08-09 22:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will be like that only till he finds some other gal. He's just feeling the void now. If you really think that he's not the right one, be strong and keep away from him. Wish you all the best in finding a soulmate.
2006-11-10 10:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Melody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse to speak to him. If he comes to your house and causes problems, call the police. It may seem extreme, but if he can't get the hint, you may have to take that step. By speaking to him at all, you make him think the lines of communication are open and he might still have a chance.
2006-11-10 00:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having the same problem with my ex he refuses to say out of my life, i have even moved and yet he is there, i have just started to ignore him, i do not answer his phone calls or even speak to him if i see him, this is working for now.
2006-11-10 10:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid guy. ^$&#%(@. I have the same condition actually, on and off, on and off, this gal that gal. I grew fed up, but he still keep in touch (B4). I was firm, a NO for him. Im tired of this kind of relationship. I know how u feel. Just dump him, and find a better one.
2006-11-10 00:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by Savor_Savvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is that you need to look at your options here. think about your relationship and is it really something you want to get back into. once you do that think about what might happen if you did. will it work out? or will it be like it always was? i don't know, but review your relationship for the answer.
2006-11-10 10:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by illinios2hollywood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is best for you to made your decision clear to him and let him know that both of you are not possible to be together. You need to be very firm when you tell him such things coz there are guys who will really beg their gf to be together with them. You must not be sofe heartened coz if you give him another chance you maybe the one ended more hurt if he starts to flirt around behind your back.
However the decision is yours and what we do here is just to provide you our point of view
2006-11-10 18:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its beta for you and him to have a clear and final talk, tell him how you feel and let him know what he had done to make you so disappointed that you want him to be out of your life, and you must be determined of your decision if you had decided to leave him. dun be soft hearted coz this kind of bf will not change sooner or later he will be back to what he is again.
2006-11-10 02:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont answer his fone calls; avoid him since hes not avoiding u.
Keep urself busy. Find someone else maybe.
Dont get back with him unless u feel comfortable or chemistry again.
2006-11-10 10:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋