About a month ago my girlfriend broke up with me. But then we kept going out like nothing had changed. Then two weeks ago she decided that she didn't want to talk to me for awhile. I am very confused and it is my fault that we broke up. What can I do to show her that i'm very sorry and will never do that bad thing again? How can I show her that I really love her and desperately want her back? I appreciate any help I can get. Thank you.
2006-11-10 00:38:05 · 18 answers · asked by emperor_onion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to give her time...Back off. Tell her you love her and that you are very sorry, Tell her you'll spend the rest of your life making it up to her. I am going to assume you cheated, we are all human. Don't make that mistake again. Time will tell you all you need to know. Tell her how you feel then give her space. Even if you don't talk for a couple weeks. Send her a text message or leave a voice mail every once in awhile telling her you love her. Best of luck
2006-11-10 00:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably came back because she thought she could ignore what happened and move on, but once back in the relationship she realized it was possible to ignore the way she felt.The only way to show her that you really are sorry will take alot of patience.You have to help her feel secure in the relationship, for example; if she is the kind of girl who needs to get a phone call to know that you are going to be late, CALL, and call every time you will be late. Time is on your side as long as you just remember to do the little things. Good Luck.
2006-11-10 08:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by akb962491 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you did was a violation of trust, then your relationship has probably been permanently damaged. The only thing you can do to earn her trust is to prove yourself over time. If you broke up because of a difference of opinion, that's a bit easier to fix. All you need to do is let her cool off a bit and try to avoid the topic.
That said, you may have to face the fact that she's gone. If she wants you back, I'm sure she'll contact you.
Good luck!
2006-11-10 18:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by SuzeY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grovel and beg - it may be the only way if you did something REALLY bad. Perhaps sending her some flowers with a lovely message could get her back in a good mood with you. Good luck - if you did something really bad you might not deserve to be forgiven so tread carefully with her. Be honest and hopefully she will want you as much as you want her. Good luck.
2006-11-10 08:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So old but true...."If you love it set it free....if it comes back it was meant to be." Tell her how you feel, give her some space, and don't push the issue to the point that you freak her out. Be mature about it and show her you care by letting her make her own decisions.
2006-11-10 08:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well if it was really bad she might never want to talk to you again. Depends on what you did. Just dont stalk her. Give her a couple of days, and then talk to her even if she said she dont want to ever talk to you again. I dont know what else to say....oh you should give her flowers too. Good Luck!!
2006-11-10 18:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by julia l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do to her? She broke up with you. And if it's your fault SHAME ON YOU! try calling her giving her presents and stuff like that. Then get married. ^_^
2006-11-10 08:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beg and plead and do romantic things like flowers take her out tell her shes beautiful everything just kiss butt major or your going to loose her and when you say you won't do that bad thing again mean it don't just say it to win her back actions speak louder than words.
2006-11-10 08:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple! do he classic thing....go outside her bedroom window with a radio and blast it! start singiing too. make sure it's a "im sorry song" if that doesn't work ...send flowers to her every week. roses...red ones. it means love. if that doesn't work. go up there knock on her door and tell her your sorry for what you did. ask her to give you another chance...every one always gets another chance :) i hope that helps.
2006-11-10 08:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by littlered102012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest backing off a bit. If she knows that she has you, you're not as valuable. Show her you're not as interested and she may give you a second look.
2006-11-10 08:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋