2006-11-10 00:27:38 · 21 answers · asked by sarapereznj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
As a Christian,the Word tells us that confession is the first step, then sincerely ask for forgiveness, believe that you are forgiven then sin no more.
2006-11-10 01:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by Rita T 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Are you sorry about the sex or sorry you had sex before marriage? Big difference.
As a clergy, my views on such behavior probably differ from most, but here goes anyway.
When you become engaged, betrothed to someone, that is a promise that you want to spend your life together. The only thing is the LEGAL part & that is the wedding, because that is how we do it here in the USA.
If you are acquainted with the Bible, you will read that fornication (sex oustside of marriage) is a sin. ADULTERY is too, but having sex with someone outside the marriage is in the COMMANDMENTS, f-a-r more serious. Both are forgiveable, but God views the union of a man & a woman as serious business. One must enter into engagement & marriage with wise & careful consideration.
If you are feeling guilty, talk to your Savior (& your fiance) about what happened. He created you & redeemed you. He will understand.
2006-11-10 11:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Luckily we had a God that is forgiving even though sometimes we give in to the sins of the flesh. But don't worry you are still God's child and as long as it was in the name of love wow you will be fine. Only you know and God and your fiance will know besides the whole world of yahoo questions so just relax. Your secret is safe with us.....{ha-ha} my bad I'm sorry you will be fine. See you in heaven. Hopefully not to soon......
2006-11-10 09:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by LIZA P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm assuming that your cathlioc ... and that depends are you really sorry or are you sorry because you know its wrong but keep doing it??? if you are having sex with your fiancee before the wedding than you should stop and wait if you are worried about going to heaven. Go to confession and take your penance and wait.
with all that's going on in the world today though i really don't think this alone will keep you out of heaven.
2006-11-10 09:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the Jewish view, pre-marital sex is frowned upon, but not an extremely serious sin (as opposed to adultery, which violates the covenant of marriage and was a capital crime in Torah.) It is unbecoming behavior which in ancient times would lower a woman's bride price by half, and might cause embarrassment, pregnancy, health risks, but not severe moral condemnation. It is not an evil act, but it is considered unwise. Mazel Tov on the upcoming wedding!
Rabbi JYH
2006-11-10 09:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by judithyale 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow ok im 14 years old you can have all the sex you want and go to heaven if it were a sin dont you think god would not have put the Pleasure part in our minds Intercourse makes babys dont worry youre going to heaven if you pray and be a good girl
2006-11-10 08:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ricardo L 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes i think you can have sex before marriage and still get to heaven. I am bothered by the point that you are sorry about the sex and still married him. maybe it was not ment to be
2006-11-10 08:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by blzabobb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Eternal Happiness—In Heaven or on Earth?
"The upright are the ones that will reside in the earth, and the blameless are the ones that will be left over in it. As regards the wicked, they will be cut off from the very earth; and as for the treacherous, they will be torn away from it."—Proverbs 2:21, 22.
Why Some Do Go to Heaven? To begin with, the Bible states that only a limited number of faithful Christians—namely, 144,000 of them—are raised as spirit creatures to live in heaven. Why are they given this wonderful reward? Because they make up the group that John saw in a vision who "came to life and ruled as kings with the Christ for a thousand years." (Revelation 14:1, 3. Earth—Mankind's Eternal Home"The righteous themselves will possess the earth, and they will reside forever upon it."—Psalm 37:29What must we do to receive the blessing of living forever in Paradise on earth? A first step is to study God's Word, the Holy Bible.
So, going to heaven is not what God had in mind for mankind.
2006-11-10 08:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You have no reason to be sorry its like taking a test drive before you buy the truck yes your still going to heaven unless you do something really bad
2006-11-10 08:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by Droptine s 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That would be between you and God. Only he knows whats truly in your heart. Marry Magdalene was a prostitute and Jesus did spare a woman who had commited adultry from being stoned to death. If your asking this question because your regret any sin you may have done then thats the first step in the right direction. like I said though its between you and God
2006-11-10 09:16:42 · answer #10 · answered by jubei_ryu 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
RicardoL gave was right on with his answer! Young but smart.
Of course you can go to heaven, if that's the very worst thing you do in your life.
2006-11-10 09:04:47 · answer #11 · answered by apples 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋