I met this guy at my work and he is already obsessed with me!?

Question

I am an exotic dancer and I met a customer at my work I really clicked with. The first time meeting him at my work
We talked for a few hours and he left, didn't ask for my #. A few months pass and he came back and told me he couldn't stop thinking about me and I gave him my#. Its been a week and he's already talking of marrying me, me carrying his children, us living together and we've never hungout! he calls me 15+times a day. I haven't answered his calls in 2 days and I want to get rid of him I'm scared of him I don't want him to harm me. This is serious, please no smart *** replies, thanks.

Answer 1

You gave a customer your number? Baaaaad idea. :(

There isn't much the bouncers or manager can do without a picture or a complete description.

Find a new club, get a new stage name, change your number.

Good luck.

Answer 2

first of all...well that was stupid to give anyone a number. So from there...block the number from your phone. If need then contact the phone co and get a new number. Tell your boss you may be having problems with a customer. contact the police to tell them the same thing. You may have a stalker
The next time he calls tell him you do not want him to contact you again. Do not put yourself in harms way and always walk to the car with friends and make sure to now answer the door without knowing who it is. Guard your phone number and any other personal info like it is your child.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Go to the cops and get a restraining order on him immediately. Have him banned from the club. Never go to and from work alone. Secure your home. Protect yourself and think about getting out of a business that attracts men like this.

Answer 5

IF you are really scared call the police and put a PBA on him that he can't come within 500 yards of you...tell them he was nice as first and you gave him your number then he turned psycho and won't leave you alone...they will put out a restraining order against him.

PS...where do you dance???

Answer 6

inform somebody at your work about your situation, and if he comes back in just simply tell him, that you sell Fantasy's, and its your job
to be nice to customers, tell him he's a nice guy but he is wasting time trying to pursue you, that you have a family and you wish the best for him.. if things get out of hand , then have the bouncer handle it and never leave work alone..
be very care full with your self alot of crazy ppl out there hun and your line of work could be dangerous at times.. he could be just a lonely man.. and go about his way.. but to play it safe, always be aware of your surroundings,

Answer 7

The guy knows the only way he can get u is telling u about marriage, he wants sleep with u.
let me ask u have u ever met somebody for the first time and u fell in love with him then the next thing is dream about marriage?

Answer 8

if u really dont like him to share life , tell him your views through a genorous person who has common scence.If u told him( the one who is emberrssing u ) directly he may get irritated. U try to present ur self while talking to him ,that u n ur supporter dont have any relationship, n ur supporter is only wellwisher.

Answer 9

Change your number and inform your boss at work, so that the guy isn't let in!!!

Answer 10

.......have some heavywieght mutherf**ker dude, on mobile phone stand-by, and when d**khead turn's up, call on yuh pal to pick you up for a coffee....When di**khead ask's yuh, whose the big dude,.. just tell him it's yuh boyfriend,...he's a bouncer at a nightclub,......" that should give him a hint or two! ".....