me and this girl have been off and on friends with benifits thing for awhile now. for a few months we were doing it everyday, then we had a fight, i called her a few names and told her not to call me anymore, she did, and a month later we were talking again, but she said she wanted no benifits. but she seemed 50/50 on it. so about 2 months pass of this and she gets some free time and wants to hang out and sleep over. well she comes over wants to sleep with me, and then asks me if i have someone else. she also has said before i cant sleep with her if i sleep with other girls, because she doesnt want to catch anything. she also hates on me like im some kind of ex-bf from hell even though we were never like that. i called her a few days after we recently slept with eachother again and she didnt pick up, i call her again she picks up and calls me stupid, says not to call her back, and then hangs up. does anyone know what is up with this and what her problem is? me and my friends cant.
2006-11-10 00:14:44 · 11 answers · asked by mecca05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is more than likely madly in love with you and called you stupid because you cannot see the light.She wants more and figured that is she backed away a bit,that you would come running to her.She came back a second time because she felt that she could not live without you and saw that things had not changed so she hit the road again.This explains why she wanted to know if you have someone else.
She could also be pregnant and does not know how to tell you
2006-11-10 00:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by jlthomas75844 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you, and possibly developing stronger feelings for you...but she for some reason doesn't want to admit it OR is not ready for commitment. I guess the main problem you have is that you or anyone else should NOT be played around with, like ball. Yes today, no the next, call you later, you're stupid don't talk to me... its not right or fair.
If you have stronger feelings for her as well, tell her straight on and maybe that will fix this thing, if you don't, you gotta be strong and tell her you don't deserve to be played like this. Maybe its time to get tough.
2006-11-10 08:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits is a self imposed illusion to appease each party's tension over real commitment. It's cool and everything just don't fool yourself into believing it's loveless and free of work -- It's a relationship and it's OK. I would hate for you to lose a friend because of how you have decided to define your time together.
2006-11-10 08:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to grow up!! Aren't you having some important things to focus on? What's up with both of you? I mean you all playing games with each other but anyway, if you knew what you wanted you could have not responded to her.Wake up and smell the rat,you both are using each other;u don't "need" each other so, Stop playing games and do something better!!
2006-11-10 08:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by keatlaretse y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girls who have a friend with benefits usually have feelings for that person. Maybe she realized that all you want from her is sex. I'm not really sure, but it sounds like she really had a lot of feelings for you and maybe she's hurt.
2006-11-10 08:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she may not know what she wants, or maybe she does in fact want you but more than just a friend with (benefits)??? But she may be afraid to ask for that ?? afraid that you don't...
or, she may be Bipolar
2006-11-10 08:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Sheena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to be more than a a friend with bene's. And since you are not willing to do that (in her mind), she is getting upset.
2006-11-10 08:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Flower Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she likes u and at the same time playing hard to get
2006-11-10 08:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by jus wanna know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could be pregnant o jus feed up. mabe she has found out something about you or caught something and thinks your the cause of it you jus have to ask her
2006-11-10 08:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by sabz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you
2006-11-10 08:18:19 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋