This guy has been chasing me for a while. i have only kissed him. he wanted to take things "further" sexually but i wouldnt. we are only seeing eachother casually. he still asks me to meet up with him. is he only interested in the chase?wouldnt he have given up/not keep asking me to meet him if he wasnt really interested in me?
2006-11-10 00:01:29 · 14 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
once he catches you and gets what he really wants- in your pants- it'll be over for him and he'll move on to chase someone else.
2006-11-10 00:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by tiggerkitty3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is only seeing you casually then there is only one thing he wants - to get into your knickers. If he was interested in a relationship with you he would see you regularly and wait until the sex developed naturally. Once he has had the thrill of the chase he will run as fast as he can to find his next conquest. Beat him at his own game and dump him.
2006-11-10 08:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmm that's a hard one to answer. On the one hand he could be really interested in the thrill of the chase - nothing beats it! it's when he gets you will he really want you ?
On the other hand, do you like him? if you do let him chase you to see how interested he really is and how hard he's willing to try to win your affection and if you's get together make him wait before taking things further - remember you're in control !
If you dont like him then just ignore him and maybe he'll eventually get the message - Good Luck !
2006-11-10 08:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Chick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
been their done that i even had the guy track me down and find where i lived turning up at my door like it was some grand love jester. (Freaking me totally out)
keep saying no ignore him give him the cold shoulder don't even give him friendly chit chat he'll only think he's in for a chance and if he keeps trying he'll thinks he can change your mind (i hate when men do that)
if he keeps doing it just tell him you not interested and stop harassing you. (and you will have to crush his feelings if it gets to this stage)
2006-11-10 08:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by dislexic1yen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Maybe he is really interested in you and can not stop until he is with you. The chase is the chase but the woman is the woman.
2006-11-10 08:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Floss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He see's you as a challenge - and thats why he's putting the work in. Dont give in unless your after no strings fun. Cos thats all it will be.
Sounds like you dont like him anyway - so just tell him to do one.
2006-11-10 08:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's to say he doesnt actually like you
if you like him then give him the benefit of the doubt
he might surprise you
holding out on the goodies cant do any harm either, especially if you're not sure :-)
2006-11-10 08:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by anna63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, u are beta dan a sex machine forget him all he is interested is whats in under ur leg and d moment he gets it he leaves u heart broken.
2006-11-10 08:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by jus wanna know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU must make the decision, yourself. How do feel about him? Do you want to be with him? Do you want to (some day) be closer? Think about it and go from there . . .
2006-11-10 08:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by alchemist0750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be chasing you for sex. He'll probably move on once he gets it from you.
2006-11-10 08:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by Angelle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋