2006-11-09 23:49:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so is 3 years and two children to long to wait?
2006-11-10 00:57:23 · update #1
3 years and 2 kids! He should have said it by now!
Ask him, then question him why he never tells you... Do it when your both in a good mood, never when agitated.
2006-11-10 01:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can put a time frame on this answer. I guess you just know when you love someone and tell them. You know when you just click together. If you feel you love someone and you are not hearing what you want to hear, well then perhaps the feelings are not mutual or then again some people have trouble saying those three little words . I LOVE YOU.
2006-11-10 00:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..got the kids as well.....you lasted this long without it..do you need to hear it? Alot rests on what you want, and do you want it enough...this may not be the answer you want but everything is in the balance...do you love him....do you love the life you have with him? If you do you have your answer he loves you , he has said it...if you dont love your life or love him, then you have your answer.....kids makes this more complicated...but this is the point about life....you either get dragged along by the river to your final end or you swim, kick and fight to where you want to be. Best of luck
2006-11-10 01:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by michael s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that if he says it too quickly,he won't mean it.it's a very important word that has lost it's meaning by using it all the time.i prefer to make small steps,firstly i want to hear "i like u",then "i think about u",then "i want u"and "i wanna be with u all the time" and after these "i love u".i can't say how long it can take to feel it,it depends on the relationship u have and your chemistry
2006-11-09 23:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by sotiria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess every one wants to hear those three little words! but for some people its very hard.(its like opening up their hearts) people should say it more often, look at Scot mills radio 1 he says to every caller! "I love you" we should begin to say it more often. Some people are more reserved than others! but i think you need to leap in and say it.dont wait for them! if the reaction is negative you will have to re think things! there is no time limit to feelings !!!! and there is nothing wrong with expressing feelings.!!!!
2006-11-10 00:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, atleast 2 Months. Becuz you need time to gauge the guy.
2006-11-09 23:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by Govinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenver you're ready to say it without pressure. If you force someone to say it, it might never happen and end things with you. Don't rush. Give them time.
2006-11-09 23:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by Kristen H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i said it very first night i met her after sex,3mths later we was engaged a year later we are married.i dont beleive in all this dating crap if you love someone tell them,if they get scared and run off,then who would want a loser like that.if you love someone tell them right now it really works xxxxxxx
2006-11-10 00:58:42 · answer #8 · answered by jonas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not the words that matter but the meaning behind them if and when tehy are said.
Don't hang everything on three words....look at the way he behaves around you, the gestures, the sharing and caring.
2006-11-09 23:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say it now assuming you feel it. Don't wait for them.
2006-11-09 23:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋