I feel that I don't deserve to have friends and I don't think that I can marry ever,I sweat when I talk to girls,act like an Idiot and I can't make an eye contact.I tried to keep my self-esteem up but when some people say I'm ugly or the way they look at me......it just break me ,I know I shouldn't care about what they think about me but I can't, I tried to don't give a **** about what they say or how they treat me but the problem is that I really care about looks and how I look like.
I'm studying dentistry because I'v always wanted to be a successful dentist,be rich and marry a beautiful wife but now I don't know If I want to marry becasue even if I became a dentist I'll be the same ugly guy who can't look at people in the eye.so now I'm thinking about hookers...........and stuff
plz help me I'm really ****** up
how can I be happy?or can I be happy???
2006-11-09 23:16:54 · 23 answers · asked by James 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
why on earth u think like that?????????
you will be absolutely brilliant if u trust urself ,,, be confident.. you will be assume if u convince urself that ur not ugly,, and that everyone likes u....
*belive me.... when u ask any girl in the world by saying:
who would u choose to be with : a successful guy, but he is ugly,, or a hot guy but he is absolutely dumb and not successful...???,, I think most girls would prefer the successful guy....
(((((always think that the inner beauty is more important than the outer beauty)))) that is the most important thing TRUST ME!!!!
look,,, no one on this earth is PERFECT... give urself a chance.... and i promise u that you will be perfect...
I mean who the hell are u talking with....they are humans just like u ( they have 2 eyes, one nose, two legs..etc) what is so special bout them!!!
you are number 1.......lol ;p
good luck anyways ;p
2006-11-09 23:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know all that feel-good crap isn't going to work on you.
People spout it off like they're doing someone a favour... but they're just reiterating something difficult as if it were totally elementary.
So you think you're ugly, and other people think you're ugly.
Chances are that for all intents and purposes you are ugly.
The trick is not to think of that as an automatically bad thing. I mean I'm fairly ugly... not hugely, but enough for it to be an inconvenience.
It can be used to intimidate people though... especially small children. Thats always good for a laugh.
And besides.... don't forget the Phantom of the Opera....
You could go for the mysterious masked guy approach.... Some chiks really dig that...
If thats not going to work, then at least take pride in the way you are and be the beast.... It'll make you popular each halloween.
2006-11-09 23:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell ya, BUT you're NOT UGLY. How do I know this, well this is the part I hate to tell ya. I AM UGLY. No one could be uglier. And you know what, I have a beautiful wife, home, truck, car, and Harley. I look mean, nasty, I have a bad attitude, I am overweight, and I'm UGLY. And I don't care what people think or say about me. Now that being said, Please forget about what you look like on the outside. It is whats inside that makes a person beautiful. If you have a good heart and use common sense you already got everybody else beat. Why?, well this is easy, becuse you're a beautiful person. Hope I helped ya even just a little. Take care, God Bless and Good Luck.
2006-11-09 23:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is anything not going the way you expected in your dentistry classes? And have you always felt the things you described.
Try to relax and possibly do something fun, just for you, but something safe and not unclean. Work on polishing your image, work on making eye contact and your mannerisms, and wonder about your classes and if you're comfortable that you're on the right path.
I've seen a few "ugly" doctors/dentists, but their poor attitudes are what made them ugly. I've seen plain or nonconventionally pretty people look positively radiant because of their shining, upstanding personalities and interesting mannerisms.
No one deserves to be miserable. Contentment is something that must be worked upon by everyone.
2006-11-09 23:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all,you never say you are ugly!!God created all humans cute,beautiful,handsome,you should always remember that.Everyone is not perfect,there always something wrong with somebody.See Iam in high school I see many happy couple together,I always wonder if it is going to happen to me,many boys in school say "you are hott" but I dont care about if they think Iam hot,I want them to like me for who Iam,not because of my looks,looks donot matter in life too me.Anways back to you,if it hard for you too make connection with a girl,maybe you are not ready for a relationship yet,or ask a really good friend to help you solve this promble.Please dont think about what people say,what do they know.You might think you are ugly from the outside of you,but I know as a grl you are really handsome inside of you!!!!!!!!! I think that is really cool that you want to be a denist you will make a lot of money,but money is not important.Being a denist mean you are very successful,smart,and most of all caring ,and trust me ladys love that.Hopefully as you get older you will never think you are ugly,and I know you will get married!!What in the hell is wrong with you about getting hookers...and stuff come on now,trust me doing bad things is just going to make you life horrible and jack up!!!!!!!Please never think about those kinds of stuff.You can be happy by enjoying your life,make it the best,by trying new things.I know you can be happy even if you donot have a grl,just wait a couple more years
2006-11-09 23:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-21 14:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day you iwll find someone who loves you for who you are, there is always someone one there for you.
Now self esteem issues, there are alot of way s you could go about this. 1 go to a coulsellor or theorpist,
2. Find ways to over come this like what i do is, when im not feeling as bad i rite soemthing i like about myself on a list or as many as i can and tehn when u r feeling bad look back on the list and see how much stuff you really do like about yourself, and just keep adding to your list. it helps belive me.
3. Socilise more, the more practice you have the more you wont get nervous. and sweat and look like an idiot.
please dont go to a hooker, these people need to be wiped out of buisness becasue these women have just as low self esteem as you
best of luck xoxo
2006-11-09 23:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that people are only calling you ugly because they are jealous. I have had similar problems and it made me really down. Maybe you should talk to a councillor about this. I found that talking to a councillor really helped me. I didn't like it to begin with but it was ok in the end.
You do deserve to have friends, everyone does. I'm sure you will get married one day.
2006-11-09 23:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
beauty is within the eye of the beholder,,one will come alone that will think u as cute as a button,,do go buy a hooker,,std's will kill u
also just remember the story of the ugly duckling,,we all go threw stages,,i was ugly all threw high school then in my late 20's..i got all kinds of date's..then i got married,,divorsed an assho..and now im almost 50 and fat and i dont get a date,people tell me its
cuz i dont get out enough to meet anyone,,so remeber this too will pass
2006-11-09 23:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
first things first , if you can't even make eye contact with a girl then she's gonna feel you don't like her. And who cares if ya sweat? If you really like this girl you would do anything to get her.
2006-11-09 23:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋