i have a relationship with a guy..
since a month and half...
i've been his girlfriend...
he's really nice to me...
he never get mad of me eventhought i made a mistake...
i've never having a bad day with him...
but this relationship is TOO STRAIGHT...
i need some differences from us...
this relationship make me bored...
till' i'm in love with a guy who i loved a year ago...
but the problem is he's in love with my friend..
what should i do to my boyfriend??broke up and tell the truth??or what?
how about a guy who i loved for a year ago??
help me...i really feel so confused...
thx before...
2006-11-09 22:45:09 · 11 answers · asked by TriXie-miMieE... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you r not loving any one of them !
2006-11-09 22:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by pepo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the guy that loves you. The other guy is trouble because he has not been faithful to you and I guess, will never be. as for the boring aspect of your present boyfriend, you could spice it up by teaching him new things or ways to make the relationship fun.
2006-11-09 23:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by King of Torts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you do sound bored with this guy.. IF you were like my age (and hell I am real old.. 53/F) I'd say stick w/him.. (You oughta see the real jerks when your 50's roll around!) BUT you are too young to play ball w/somebody boring. I would break up w/him.. sure.. but I would not tell him the truth (or what I see you writing here.. he bores you.) That'd hurt his feelings too much and you know what? Maybe he'll think it over and be more interesting (for you!.. to win YOU back! kool) later, am I right? So don't totally piss the guy off, hon. I think the fact you still got the hots for the old bf is what's messing up your thinking w/the current guy (the boring dude.) You know, this old bf IS going w/your best friend SO that makes him kinda 'hard to get' (and I don't know why, but everybody wants something they can't have.. me.. you.. everybody! Hell, I want a stud that's totally in love with and committed to me.. but do I get it? hell no! get my drift?) lmao. Tell the one dude you want 'space' and don't talk to or hang around the old bf/your friend, K? later.. (Sorry I don't have much good advice for ya w/who to go to next, tho!) peace-
2006-11-09 22:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont be confuse,you're with a good man right now,why ruined your relationship with a nice guy.past is past,and besides ,the man you loved a year ago is in love with your friend,do you think you could bring him back to you?or do you think he still loves you?Your making things worste.stick to your man,your only a month and a half,you really dont know what are his reasons for being too nice.ask him...and discusssed things with him.Try to reached out and communicate with your man.
2006-11-09 22:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by carmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will never understand you weak young women that have a good man at home and you want to screw around. Just how many good men do you think is left in this world? What if someone left you because they thought you were boring. Get a grip and a clue!
2006-11-09 23:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you complaining?
Everything is boring with this guy who treats you well, is it? Then spice it up! It's not only his responsibility to make it work, it's yours, too. Put some effort into making it fun and sexy, etc...
If you are still pining away for someone who is not in love with you then you are wasting this new guy's time and yours...
2006-11-09 22:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok just think bout this
Do u wanna be wid a guy who cares the world for u and will treat u like a princess
OR
Do you wanna be wid a guy who cares but can ditch u and go to someone else.
At the end listen to ur heart its your life but think bout what u wanna do before taking a rash decision
2006-11-09 22:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by AJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could be harsh and just break up with him, you could make it more exiting by yourself, leave your old boyfriend for your friend, and talk to your own bf, go 2 exiting places 2getha, dp exiting sruff 2getha.. don be 2 rulebound.
2006-11-09 23:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by Rick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your bf is nice to youand you brake up with him i hope your next bf beats the heck out of you if will serve you right for the last brake up. you spice up this relationship
2006-11-09 22:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the truth it always comes out anyway,why make yourself miserable.the longer you wait the more you will hurt.and the people will hurt
2006-11-09 22:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave that poor guy and find someone else not the one who has a girl friend
2006-11-09 22:49:02 · answer #11 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋