we r in live in relation for past 2 year
i am his first love and he is not readt to leave me
2006-11-09 22:30:10 · 19 answers · asked by veronica c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to bad that he is not ready to leave you then he should not have cheated. if you allow him to do it he will do it again. move on and find someone that will be faithful.
2006-11-09 22:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A live in relationship doesn't necessarily mean an arrangement where a man and a woman in love, stay together without getting married. It involves an arrangement whereby two people (man and woman) stay together to share expenses and domestic work. Like mindedness and not love is important here. So it is essentially an arrangement of convenience. Which means that your live in partner can indeed love any woman other than you. But if love is the basis on which you two decided to go for a live in relationship, you should have gone for marriage instead. Cheating by your partner is a problem indeed. But as he still professes to love you and isn't ready to leave you, give him a chance to rectify himself. If it doesn't work, you should separate amicably. Separation in live in relationships is hassle free unlike that in marriage.
2006-11-10 07:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating someone is the worst and greatest offense on this earth!he is not ready to leave you because he thinks of you as his safety net.tell him that you cant trust him one single bit!i know i wouldnt.i mean he could have chosen to respect your relationship.but by cheating he has offended you and your commitment towards him.i mean you are too good for him and he is too foolish to not understand your worth.if you forgive him he will take you for granted.face it the beauty of your relationship is dead.there is only unhappiness ahead.you are yyoung and seem like a ery nice hearted person.then why are you holding yourself for someone who cant even maintain a long term relaitonship and broke the bond between both of you!trust makes a relationship and if the very foundation is so weak how can you expect him to be steadfast ahead.its all up to you!you have to think only of yourself and nothing else!just think of yourself!good luck!
2006-11-10 13:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by s4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a long 2 yrs relationship & u found out he is cheating on u so its best saying better late than never if he can do it after2 yrs he can do it again.So its best 4 u 2 find Some1 that can be TRUSTED life is Precious so dont be a Fool just find the right person who Knows the VALUE of LOVE
2006-11-10 06:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by mcdheskc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be dumping him as soon as i found out because he has broken the trust & you will never trust him again & too bad if he's not ready to leave don't give him a choice pack his stuff & throw it out the front
2006-11-10 06:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by cowboys4lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had a boyfriend and he cheated on me, I'd fuc.k his best friend. Then, I'd take his debit card and withdraw all of his money, go round to his house while he was out, cut all of his clothes up, pour oil all over his furniture, wait until he came back, spit bleach in his eyes, stamp on his balls and then pour chlorine all over his face. Take the hardline sweetheart, it's the only way.
2006-11-10 06:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by livingthelie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
like other said is better to find ur way why is still time than later.
if u are still young
don't worry u will get one better than him.
one lose man found so don't worry .good luck
2006-11-10 06:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by lias 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any relationship should be based on mutual trust. If you are convinced that he is cheating on you, you must quit.
2006-11-10 07:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if he's ready to leave you, he's cheating, kick his unfaithful hiney out the door.
2006-11-10 06:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by golden oldy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He would be dumped. No questions asked. No excuses. What a creep.
2006-11-10 06:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by shortcake 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋