please help?

Question

I just feel today to sit and type, i am tired i am not feeling to well but I long for something I don't know
what but I am sure I will find it, I am so scared I made a mistake, that
could influence my entire life, did I choose the right person, or did I choose
the wrong person, I love my boyfriend but he only told me he loves me a month ago
let me tell you the story, my boyfriend and I met in April, in the beginning it was friendship,
later he told me that I would be the perfect girlfriend for his brother, which I also
befriended his brother but he fell in love with me and couldn't HAND ME OVER to his brother, his brother
is willing to give me everything and anything and told me he
loves me a month after we met and that he wants to marry my, but something kept me
back the whole time my feelings for my boyfriend became stronger and stronger, but I couldn't
break away from his brother, this month I decided enough was enough and I chose my boyfriend
hurting his brother tremendously, we see each other allot and it hurts every time we look at
each other, he got a new girl but he told me over and over he wants to be with me, I don't know what to
do he is confusing me.

Answer 1

Stick with your gut feeling.It hurts to see him because you know that you have hurt his feelings.He is unknowingly playing on your feelings making you feel sorry for him and taking up the time you could be happy with your bf by thinking if you made the right decision.You are confused because you are a person with a gentle nature and wants to please everybody.Stay with the guy you actualy have feelings for that is near to love. The feelings you have for the other guy is just feelings of a pity nature and you dont want a relationship based on that.

Answer 2

Are you going out with his brother just to see him when you can??? You can't have both, it's either one or the other, if you care about your boyfriend, stop thinking about the other one, he might just be trying to win you over his brother to proove that he's better, most guys like a competing with other guys!
I was going to go out once with this really sweet guy and his friend told me that he wants to be with me for the rest of his life and that when he first saw me he got the most wonderful and wierd feeling in his tummy, so I thought aww sweet I started going out with him and we're not together anymore, coz he lost interest in me and I found out that he was prooving to his friend that he can get chicks better than he can!