2006-11-09 21:08:04 · 17 answers · asked by Drillboss 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
Those of us who have served in the US military -- I was in the Navy about 20 years ago -- join up willingly, and we join knowing that there's always the possibility of being sent into harm's way.
I can understand your concern for your son, just as I am concerned for my brother, who's a USMC officer in Iraq right now.
But also be proud of him, and recognize the fact that he's going to help 29 million build a new country out of the ruins left behind by a brutal dictator.
Also know that, contrary to what you may read in the liberal-dominated media, the vast majority of service personnel in Iraq believe in what they are doing over there, and are proud to be a part of it.
Also know that most Iraqis -- again, contrary to the biased anti-war media reports -- are grateful for our help too. Most of them know that their real enemy is not us, but the "insurgents" (they're not really insurgents; they're terrorists).
Know that without the presence of brave soldiers such as your son, these "insurgents" would turn Iraq into an even bigger trouble spot than it already is.
Don't believe the vicious rhetoric from the extremist anti-war crowd; your son isn't going there to kill people. He's going there to save lives.
You and your son will both be in my prayers. God watch over you both.
2006-11-09 22:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
WOW. A concerned father wants to prevent his son going to fight in a place where he might die...or worse. Of course, If he had a daughter, she could get pregnant (even easier while deployed) and get out of her "solemn" duty. This happens much more than most people know.
Still worse, "wives" of Soldiers, and the like, speak of duty from the climate-controlled comfort of their own homes. Give this man a break! You wouldn't consider the same, if your son (don't forget, he's a Scout) was being sent to Iraq.
Secondly, why would anyone question the son's courage or patriotism. He hasn't written a single word in this forum.
If you support the war, drive your own kids to the recruiter. If you support the Soldiers, and families of soldiers, show some compassion.
2006-11-10 22:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i replaced into making an allowance for replacing right into a member of the military and turning out to be a Cavalry Scout, yet i keen to flow to school. i love the interest, that is necessary because you're the first ones in to map out the realm and such. Very risky. If the warfare is over, you'd be positioned in a station someplace. you may want to likely prepare and purely stay existence until eventually they call you into service. bear in mind although, you're literally uncertain to get the interest you want.
2016-11-28 23:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it would be unethical for you to even consider it.
When your Son joined the military, if you read the enlistment contract very carefully the very last sentence says 'THE NEEDS OF THE MILITARY WILL CONTROL"
Your Son, signed on for a JOB to break things and kill people if required.
What makes YOUR son so special that he should get special treatment when the rest of us haven't had special treatment?
Sorry I don't have a lot of sympathy for you, as I am a Former US Army Drill Instructor with the 104th Training Regiment
2006-11-09 21:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you SERIOUS?
What is wrong with you? Your son made a commitment to serve his country now he's going to honor it. You don't get to join the military and take all the money and training they offer you, and then cut and run when they ask you to return the favor.
Grow up, join the ranks of military parents/spouses/children, etc. Have pride and don't act like a weasley little defector. Americans don't run!
2006-11-10 14:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by kherome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why would you want to do that? He volunteered. He's old enough to make the decision to sign up for military service, so he's doing what he wants to do. Why interfere with that? I understand how you feel about not wanting him to be in harms way, but that is part of what comes with the job.
Don't let your son go away knowing you disagree with what he is doing, negative thoughts won't do him any good over there. If he decides on his own, that is his own right, but he must be prepared to face the consequences for any actions he takes to keep from going. You don't have to agree with what is going on in Iraq, and why we have to be there, but support your son and make it a little easier for him when it's time to deploy.
2006-11-09 21:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by aviationboatswainsmate 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he doesnt want to go then get him to Canada but be aware he will never be allowed back in the US. Like murder there is no statute for desertion .
If he wants to go then Dad you have to step aside and let him do his duty.
My son is in the Royal Australian Navy as a submariner and I worry about him all the time, but it was his choice, he has been well trained and his boats company are some of the finest young men i have ever met, his officers are superb men and women also who have had some of the best training going.
I hate the war, I hate Bush and his party that caused this ******* mess. Bush isnt even fit to like the piece of dog **** of my shoe , and i hate the stupid waste of life on all sides and I am ******* angry.
But our kids have to go forward with our support and our approval , they will have enough to deal with without worrying about us.
Best of luck to your family in this time
2006-11-09 23:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no realistic way of "keeping" him from going. It is really his decision...one he made when he enlisted and another when he boards the plane. He will not be forced, he will serve honorably because he will want to.
As an Infantryman, I appreciate the service and sacrifice of my brother, your son. Rest assured, he will be with some of the finest men our citizens have produced and they will protect him like family.
Pass my well wishes on to him and I hope his absence is not too great a burden on you.
Follow me!
2006-11-09 23:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Dog Face 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, you can not stop him from going. I wish you and your son all the best.
I do not support the war, but I will support the troops. That is why I think they need to come home!!
Take a stand, tell people how you feel. Start campaigning to bring the troops home! It is public protest that can change things.
Take Care, please.
2006-11-09 21:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Request the Democrats for the withdrawal of US troops in Iraq. It is the surest way that your son will not be sent to Iraq.
2006-11-09 21:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by FRAGINAL, JTM 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋