Breaking up is tough! can you share your story of how it happened?

Answer 1

IT'S EASY TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE WHEN YOU ARE NO LONGER IN LOVE WITH THEM, BUT WHEN THEY STILL HAVE A PART OF YOUR SOUL, IT'S REALLY HARD.

HERE'S MY STORY.

MY BOYFRIEND AND I WERE TOGETHER FOR THREE YEARS. AFTER A WHILE, HE BECAME VIRBALLY ABUSIVE. WHEN I ASKED HIM TO STOP, HE APOLOGIZED AND DID IT ALL OVER AGAIN. I TOLD HIM THAT HE WAS HURTING MY FEELINGS WITH HIS RUDE COMMENTS, BUT HE DIDN'T CARE.

AS HARD AS IT WAS, I FINALLY HAD TO COME TO GRIPS WITH THE FACT THAT THE RELATIONSHIP WASN'T GOING TO WORK, NO MATTER HOW MUCH I LOVED HIM, NO MATTER HOW MUCH I WANTED TO BE WITH HIM, OR HOW MUCH I NEEDED HIM.

ABUSE OF ANY KIND SHOULD NEVER BE TOLERATED BY ANYONE FOR ANY REASON.

IT JUST GOES TO SHOW YOU THAT NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU MAY LOVE SOMEONE, THEY ARE NOT ALWAYS THE RIGHT PERSON FOR YOU. I THOUGHT WE WERE SOUL MATES, AND I WAS PREPARED TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH HIM.

TO THIS DAY, THRE IS A PART OF ME THAT STILL LOVES HIM AND ALWAYS WILL.

Answer 2

We have been dating and fighting for almost 2 years before I got tired and said "it's over". But unfortunately it is always easy to say something but it is difficult to feel same way. It was really hard for me to get over everything, I was feeling really really bad for almost 3 months. My friends helped me a lot, didn't let me to stay home where they knew I would be sitting on the sofa for whole day, thinking about him and crying and maybe my nerves would fail and I would call him.
I thought that life was over and I would never fall in love again, would never feel the same way I felt for him. But remember life goes on and it depends on you what you make of it.
I would lie to you if I said that I don't remember him and I don't feel anything for him when we meet sometimes on parties, but the reality is that I fell in love again in about a year and now I'm married with two children.

Answer 3

We got into a small petty argument and next thing you know he told me to leave. Two weeks later he explained that he was too young and didn't want a serious relationship. Now he tells me that he loves me and acts like he wants to get back together at times and the next day he doesn't want to be with me. It's really shitty so if your planning on leaving someone make sure that's what you really want so the other person doesn't have to have there heart strings pulled back and forth. It really ruins a person.

Answer 4

All the scruffy b@stard did was text me: "i'm unsure about a long term relationship.." and I haven't heard anything from him since.

That was on Tuesday. And u know what the worst part is? I'm worried now that something might have happened to him, coz I can't get hold of him anywhere!!!

Answer 5

I knew he was going to move away eventually.
But I still wanted to be with him.
We tried and it was so great.
We are still really good friends.
I broke up with him because I didn't want us to get hurt in the end since he was so close to moving away.
It was the hardest thing I've ever done.
I cried my heart out because I knew I hurt him... but we weren't that serious to begin with and we would just continue something that we knew was going to end. So I felt like I had to end it right then and there before it got worse.
We still hung out and were great friends.
He moved away. We still talk. I miss my friend.

Answer 6

Hello Ray......Well, I once dated this girl for 6yrs. This girl was beautiful, intelligent and very independent. Things seemed to be going fine with our relationship at the time or so I thought. Well, one night I came over her house like I normally would to spend time with her. She and I bothed had jobs and I did what I could to make the best out of the kind of schedule I had to make time for her. Anyway, I had a bowling league that night and after I was done I came over. She was in her room sitting on the side of her bed being very quiet. I didnt like that at all. So, I walked over and sat beside her for a few minutes not saying anything at first. Then I decided to ask her what was wrong and with that being said I saw the first of many tears dripping down her face. At this point I knew something wasnt right. I continued to ask her what was wrong and she continued to be silent. I asked her if it was something I did. Again, she said nothing and I started to get a little agitated. So, I took it upon myself to ask her the million dollar question: " Do you want to break up with me?" She told me it was because our relationship wasnt going anywhere, that we just hit a brickwall all of a sudden. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. After 6 long years, we ended everything in one night. Well, actually she ended us or what use to be us. If was funny to hear her say all those things when I was the one that always talked to her about getting married and getting our own place. You know, things you do to move on with your life. At least I was making the effort to do something with our relationship its just too bad she wasnt on the same page with me when it came to that. Anyway, theres more to our break up, but it would take me too long to explain everything. It took its toll on me for a while because not only did I love and care about her I now had this big void in my everyday life and I had to find some way to fill it. I didnt know what i was gonna do because it became a routine for me seeing her on certain days at certain times and now its over. I eventually got over it with time....I just hope I dont have to go through that again because im not sure I could handle it a second time...............

Answer 7

my girlfriend and i,wel x now, were very happy together.we moved in together. we were together for 6 years and we were gane get married. she is the first persone i'v ever realy truly loved. one day we decided that we were gane go for a drink after work, and we were gane meet eachother at the pub. she was late. i waited for her. a girl that sat next to me started talking to me an i kinda talked to her to. after 15 min of talking to her she said she had to leave. i sayd bye to her, but then she just grabbed me and kissd me! right then my girlfriend came into the pub and saw. she pussed the girl off me, and hit me! the girl that kissd me said we have to do that again when my girlfriend isn;t around, like old time. this girl was crazy! my girlfriend and i had a really big fight, but we didn't break up then. the girl that kissd me in the pub started harassing my girlfrien. and it got really bad. she attact my girlfriend and stabed her to death... is not really a break up, but i lost the persone i love most in the entire world.

Answer 8

okay, i found a reason and a way to make sure that he thought he was breakin up w/ me and i felt real bad abt that - it was actually that i wanted to brk up w/ him for the longest of time, but i could not cause deep inside he was already the most imp part of my life, but i knew that he had to go and i had to ove on cause what i had with him, was hurting and killin me way to much, and i knew how much he could and would hurt me, plus turns ut that he was not reqally honest he had still had a thing for his ex, and they rwecently moved in together, so basically i felt okay with it, but i miss him, however i know thta i shoukd not

Answer 9

i was with a girl 4 2 years..we lived together.i was supporting her and also bought her a car. turns out she went back her own ways. went back on heroin and left me for another guy.a few months later i got back with my other ex gf..we havent spoken to each other in 3 years.i found out that her ex left her and her son a few months ago and shes been in and out of hostpital afew times..thats when we met again..at the hostpital.so we went back out again.although she had a kid with another guy..i still loved her and her son as if it was my own.it only lasted a month..reason why was because i was just to nice..she had 2 much problems and left me...

Answer 10

when i had to break up with my bf-we are back together by the way- i was on AIM and decided to make all these rude comments at some jokes he was making. so i ended up telling him what was on my mind and more and cursing him out via AIM and saying that all he wants from our relationship is sex which was not true. he got mad and told me to F*** off! after that i knew that i screwed up bad yet that neither of us wanted to admit that what we said got out of hand. i was the one who called off the relationship after almost 10 months of being together but after i broke up with him i realized that i had to do it since i has to figure things out on my own, at my own pace, at my own time, thru my own heartache. he did not realize why i broke up with him even months later until we ended up going to the same university as transfer students and he realized that i as a person needed time.