why is it, when a guy you know such as your best friend would not look at you when they talk. Is it some sort of thing that he likes you or just that he is to shy and he don't want to look at you. he just left here and when he left i had to laugh, because i think its funny, he talks to me but he barely looks at me, he was standing there actually lookin at the wall. am i rude for laughing? or should i think that the dude is feeling me?
2006-11-09 19:30:24 · 7 answers · asked by Pretty Native Lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmm. Interesting my sweet!
A couple of things about guys...
Most of us could like most any gal. If we become friends with them we start to feel an attraction. Just natural human nature and a comfort zone. Take for instance work. Many many relationships begin from the "water cooler." Why? You get familiar with your co-workers and the initial barriers are removed. You know their favorite lunch, music, style etc etc. It is easy to slide into something. Opposite sex friends are the same. Many times one person feels it more than the other. Gals often accept us guys easier as a "friend" then guys accept them as a "friend." Guys naturally get territorial even if he isn't sleeping with her.
Finally, you probably make him nervous due to his secret feelings. If you like him that way then say so. If not set the mood straight IMMEDIATELY! Guys are no different than gals in that they get their feelings hurt too if they allow themselves to invest these secret feelings for too long. Don't tease or play with him. I know the attention may be addictive but he is a human with feelings.
Please don't get upset but this game is sooooooo old and repeats over and over and over for thousands of years! As you get older you will laugh because you will see things repeat. Much like so many movies remade over and over and over.
Good Luck
2006-11-09 19:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by ChillinForrealin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um that depends, i mean usually when people engage in conversation itz the listener who's looking at the person talking and the person talking doesn't look at the audience's eyes (face) as much as the listener, but if he isn't looking at all he either is intimidated by you, is extremely shy, doesn't want to give you the wrong idea if you might think he's looking else where or just acts like that towards everyone. There could be a bunch of reasons so maybe you should approach the subject lightly and just ask him why
2006-11-09 19:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he Muslim? Is he awkward? Was he thinking deeply while looking away? I don't think it is a good sign that he likes you. Might there have been something on the wall? Maybe something was on his mind. Did this only happen once?
2006-11-09 19:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he knows if he looks in your eyes you will thing he loves you we cant win hu look at you we love you don't look at you and something is wrong
2006-11-09 22:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he`s feeling deep for you...awww, i hope it works out.
He wouldnt visit or phone etc if he wasnt interested.
2006-11-09 19:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he definitely likes you
2006-11-09 19:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anais 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and ask him.
2006-11-09 19:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋