After a couple of weeks of smiling at this guy and just saying hi, i introduced myself to this guy I like and he sorta seemed surprised but now he makes an effort to come make small talk with me or call out "hey whats goin on" when he sees me in the hall even if i havent seen him, are these signs that he's interested? He comes to say goodnight to be if he's studying near me in the library too. He seems to try to joke around with me but we dont really know eachother or much about eachother since we only see eachother in the library.
2006-11-09 19:12:07 · 20 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He could be leading up to that but doing it slowly like he feeling you out. This is a way some men do when they like but want to see what you are all about. Just make sure he is not tied up or married and put on your best personality and clothes and wait for the gold.
2006-11-09 19:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may like you, maybe just as a friend right now, but he is showing interest. If he takes the time out to say goodbye and make small talk, that's really good. And saying goodnight is really sweet. Try being a little flirtatious, and see if he does the same. Ask him questions about his life and show an interest in him and try to be more than the girl he says goodnight to. Be the girl he sits down and talks to on a more than casual level.The more you talk, the more you will discover about him, and vice a versa. It definitely sounds like he wants to get to know you, so yes, I would say this guy does like you. And if it doesn't get to the level of dating, hey look on the positive side of things, at least you made a new friend.
2006-11-10 03:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by CJSmartz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea he does~! eventually he will love you then eventually and maybe possibly you guys may break up in future and you will come back here again and would ask: Does this guy hate me?
You would then say: After a couple of weeks of ignoring this guy and swearing at him, i introduced myself to another guy I like and asked if her wanna beat my crush. He pauses and says "hey whats goin on"? He comes to say "so you wanna kill him, then I would go to the library to thrash him".
2006-11-10 03:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy like you, but he's rather shy, which is a good sign! Pls dont be in a hurry and let him come out by himself! He's trying to summon enough courage to ask you out and I am sure very soon he'll do just that!
I wish you luck!
2006-11-10 03:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Richie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally think this guy has the hots or you! How about asking him out for a drink?
Get to know eachother a bit more and if thats sucsessfull then ask him out on a date (if he don't ask you first) What's the worst that can happen?
I think you should go for it!
Good luck
x
2006-11-10 03:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by ema 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya I think he is into you, but he is playing it cool to try to get to know you better. He may be a little shy too. He wouldn't go out of his way to talk to you if he wasn't interested. Next time you guys are talking, you should just casually ask him to hang out with you or a group of friends sometime so you guys could hang out more one on one.
2006-11-10 03:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lis B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flow with your life, girl. Don't think and expect too much, you will disappointed because of that. Try to be neutral and respond as well as you should be.
Take calm and wait, if he says and tells you that he loves you, so enjoy your romance as much as you want. But if he just only wants to be your best friend, take him as well as he wants to be, you will get benefits of that. You have to know that it's very difficult to find a best friend who will help and support you if you are in trouble.
Take care.
2006-11-10 03:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by eddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in Library ask for some books how to read peoples mind and behaviors and how far is from like to love and to life.
2006-11-10 03:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, Try it out by talking to him more. Make some jokes - try to connect. If it turn out he do not like you then dont worry, I like you. Goodluk and be nice in every situation
2006-11-10 03:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by timbo_boi15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he likes you. You should try to ask him for a drink or lunch. It's OK to make a move on a guy. We like that. It takes a LOAD of pressure off.
2006-11-10 03:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by Mister_Shhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋