okay. i am in a nice relationship. i have been on and off with my bf but mostly on-i broke up with him for 3 months; -out of the 15 months we have known and been together. we had some rough stuff to get thru but none harder than this year. so tonit ei am on AIM with him and i tell him a promise i made my brother-h eis almost 11- and i am not sure i can keep it. my bf in return said that the only promise he made me was "to always be your best friend" which is really corny and stuff and mine was "to be happy". what the heck does he mean by his promise? plus he keeps on telling me how there is a book i need to finish reading because he already read-my life, etc.-and how things can be changed in the book and how you write the book. i was like "okay , whatever. what are you on?" we have been together a pretty long time, go to the same university and i do not know if he will ever want to settle down with me. he is almost 24 and me almost 22.
2006-11-09 19:12:04 · 3 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he already aske dme the what if i were to ask you to marry me now what would you say question -that was a couple months ago and i said no since i was 21 and him 22 and about to be 23. what does he want form me? he told me that in the near future he cannot honestly see us together getting married and stuff....so yeah, i am confused. one minute he says one thing and the next he changes his mind. any ideas?thanks
2006-11-09 19:15:17 · update #1
then he decides that he does not want anything for either Christmas or his b-day(3 days after x-mas) but rather be with me, happy and in my co.
2006-11-09 20:04:47 · update #2
Sounds to me like you're getting a bit sketchy and he doesn't like what he See's. Step back and take a good hard look at yourself and him. You need to ask yourself some serious questions. When you're talking (settling down) there's a lot involved there. Like dealing with each others ups and downs day in and day out. Your careers. Buying a house. Starting a family. Can you see growing old with this person? What are your goals in life? Do you have the same goals in mind? And a whole bunch more than that. If you're already having problems at 22 and 24 you better get ready for the real world. Good luck
2006-11-09 19:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by Justa_Honay_Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your the girl that wrote the third degree burn! Interesting - Davetim22!
2006-11-11 03:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time the use the "it's not you, it's me" line...
2006-11-10 03:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by paladin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋