Recently been dumped my the ex girlfriend. can this be the problem, & stress, and all the other crap that comes after being dumped
2006-11-09 19:05:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you can! In fact, I was able to prevent erections for nearly 6 months. It did take years of mind focus though. When we get depressed our bodies react in many ways. Many people get sick more often, some have aches and pains that a doctor can't figure out, and others just eat their way to fat land (next door to Michael Jacksons NeverLand lol). Seriously!
Here is my story in a nut shell....
Wife gained 150 lbs and was not interested in sex AT ALL for some 9 years. We had sex about 1 time a year. I got tired of JO all the time and started focusing on being a good father to our daughter who was a toddler. Eventually I had no erections at all! I was depressed and tried to ignore it.
She lost the weight with the stomach surgery. She Cheated on me and I caught her ******* this 26 year old hard core!
Almost divorced.... within a hair! Then we had an open talk about
sex, sexuality etc etc. Learned a shitload and gave a shitload. Now we have a much better understanding of each others needs. I have focused on myself and have been able to bring ol wood back. And it IS LIKE RIDING A BICYCLE! You never forget!
2006-11-09 19:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by ChillinForrealin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stress and bad mood causes a person to lose sex drive! Same reason as stress can also cause a person to lose appetite for food. Cheer up and broaden your views and you'll be surprised on how your sex drive can regain its confidence & vitality!
2006-11-10 03:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress plays a big factor in the drive. But no matter if you lose it or not, it always comes back! ; )
2006-11-10 03:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she dumped you losing your sex drive is a good thing until you bounce back
2006-11-10 03:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeh you can loose its if you do not take things in control it will be a big problem for you you should learn to love yourself then you can love others again
2006-11-10 03:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by alfa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is a probable side effect...
you'll get it back once a hot chick catches you eye...
2006-11-10 03:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by mr E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly...give it time and move on things will be back to normal
2006-11-10 03:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by Tinnie Cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋