i dont think i'll ever find my true love...?

Question

when you think you've found the perfect one they always change...

Answer 1

It'll come when you least expect it.

Answer 2

Yeah I thought that too. I went through a divorce after marrying late and then dated every jerk on the planet. I was so depressed I lost my house and everything because I felt like a failure that was never going to acheive any dream I ever had. One month after losing my house (at the age of 45) I met someone who was 29 and he turned out to be the man of my dreams. I am getting engaged after living with him for 2 years. We are like two peas in a pod and laugh all the time and have the best life. We know eachothers good and bad points and deal well with eachother. We have the same interests and hardly ever even leave the apartment because we have so much fun together and enjoy eachothers company so much. I have the life I NEVER DREAMED OF with someone. It is even better than I expected. I wish now that I had not been so dismal and had not lost my house and had PREPARED for the future I have now and been patient and had some faith. That is my advice to you. WORK ON WHAT YOU CAN BRING TO THE TABLE! I guarantee you that there is someone thinking the same thing as you right this very minute.....and the future will bring you together. Make every minute until then count so you will have a good life together!!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck!

Answer 3

Some people go through an entire lifetime and never find true love, and others are lucky to find it more than once. When you fall in love, you'll know it, and it most likely will happen when you least expect it, and it will most likely be with someone that is very different from most of the guys that you've dated. The key is to take good care of yourself, study hard, exercise, eat right, and be the best person you can be, so when that special guy does come into your life, you will be ready. In the meantime....take care of you.

Answer 4

you are right. You will never find it. Because 'true love' exists only on cinema screens. Go have fun and screw somebody new. That's for real !
p.s. "when you think you've found the perfect one they always change..." - no they've always been the same idiots but simply tried to make them like you at the beginning. Don't be foolish, don't like people!
All the best, Cheersito

Answer 5

I cant tell you rather your right or wrong, I doubt anyone can give you a straight answer on true love. Some things in life you have to take with faith. I was told once, long ago that, if you believe in something, have faith in it enough. That something becomes real, something you can hold and feel. I believe in true love, i really do, although i haven't found my true love yet. It's alright to love and have it fail, it only makes your true love even sweeter. Keep searching, keep believing it true and you'll find it someday.

Answer 6

Well, I'm ugly, so take it from me that "true love" is mighty stinking hard to find if you have disadvantages.I'm smart and friendly, but I never get dates or attention because I am plain. So you aren't alone. Believe me.

"True love" is a cliche term that really seems to refer to that burning infatuation that you get when you first meet and fall in love. It doesn't last. Take psychology and they will teach you that there are stages to long-term relationships and one of the last stages is basically just platonic friendship. That is really what infatuation eventually fades to and most relationships almost never last past the infatuation stage to mature into the true friendship and sometimes even that doesn't last. Be happy with yourself. If you are truly happy with who you are you don't find yourself longing for someone else. I don't.

Just remember most marriages don't last and everyone who is in love thinks it will last forever. It rarely does.

Answer 7

there is someone out there for everyone....and you are talking to a guy who is never considered to be anymore than a friend by the women around here (well except for one woman) anyway for a long time I thought that I would be lonely forever but I have found out otherwise, here is a tip, make friends with them....then decide whether or not to take it any further, the relationship will last much longer and it will be a lot better

Answer 8

Yeah thats true... but dont sweat it. remember that change is good and even we gradually change. though there are many that are good then change, there will be one that will change in a liking for you. so no worries, be cool and smooth and dun give up. If you want to find the perfect partner, then by all means you will :)

Answer 9

Yes ... when you stop looking you'll trip over the guy!

However in my experience ... most folks don't change that fast ... it may be your rose colored glass were obstructing your view a bit. After the newness wore off you saw the small imperfections that were really huge .

Some times it hard to see the Forest fore all the trees in the way!
Choose Well .... Be Happy !

Answer 10

Life isn't a fairy tale. people will always change, you will, I will, that girl over there will, same with him right there. it's just a matter of what you want out of life. Relationships are a bit like TV, if you don't like what you are watching, find the remote, change the channel.

Answer 11

Probably never will as long as your looking for it. True love tends to find you. Its kinda like losing your keys and as you look for them you find something you lost a month ago. When you give up and go with the flow true love will find you.
-NmD!