well i don't find myself attractive?

Question

well i am not attractive looking guy and well you could say that i am kind of short and i know girls don't like short guys and well if i tell my height yall gonna make fun of me and laugh at me and well if i was attractive then i would have girls after me but i don't find myself attractive and i know girls go after looks and well i just gave up on girls and probally end up being single for rest of my life............

Answer 1

r question dude (lolz) dnt be such a woss, ur a man, be strong, dnt be so weak, otherwise ur whole life u will become weak and gullable, we choose the way we feel, so say to urself, ur better then this and ur a man and strong, as for the girls part, just allow them, be urself, do what u can do be happy, if a girl likes u then it will happen, do other things in life, like sport, go holidays, see the world, take ur mind of these things then i promise u nature will do its course, u talk about short, but u can do anythign that about, its not ur fault so u aint got nufin to feel down about, this life is short so make the most of it and stay happen, there are lot of short girls out there and short girls dnt have tall men, so they will like u as they like themselves, chill man, there are people out in the world who r less fortunate then us, they dnt have arms, legs, have desieas like cancer, Aids, etc, dnt have parents, dnt have money, dnt have food on the table, are strugling in life, so think of urself lucky, why not try to occupy your mind by helping the unfortunate if u can, to make a differcece to their lives, that will give u such peace and happiness that u made a different o people's lives, u will forget about things like being short and girls, the male and female thing will happen naturally, dnt put urself down, just go with the flow and take every day as it comes, keep ur mind occupied and i promise u again u be happy, married, kids, but only if u look at the bigger picture and relax and get on with life and be urself, thats all. PEACE!

Answer 2

Not all girls go after looks, you know. Looks don't make for a very good basis for a relationship anyway.
I'm a girl, and the first thing that attracted me to my bf wasn't his looks-- it was his ability to be a really good friend and care about me. Don't give up hope! you say if you were attractive you would have girls after you... do you really want someone who's going to only like your looks, not you as a person? Reach out and get to know girls that will find YOU attractive, not your looks. Show them that you're the kind of guy they want to be with, and looks won't matter. Patience! The right girl will come, eventually!

Answer 3

Sure, most people might look at a person and judge them by their looks first, but I'm one of those people out of many who do this that try to get to know a guy first and decide if i find his personality attractive. If I think he's a good guy and we end up going out, then it won't matter what he looks like as long as his personality is good. Not all girls go for attractive guys, sure it's a bonus if you find an attractive guy who is great and loves you, but it's really not necessary, and besides "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder", so who knows you may just have a secret admirer out there somewhere.

Answer 4

That's harsh. I wouldn't laugh at U cause of your height. A lot of ppl I went to High School w/ were short. I'm average height. But there is someone that's going to like you. Get some confidence in your self. That's always a turn on (well for me it is.)

For most of HS would not make eye contact w/ ppl and just look so pitiful. One day (and this may sound really shallow) I got my hair in braids and I loved the way I looked in them and I wasn't so self concious for a week or so because I liked the way I looked for a change. I walked to the hall w/ confidence (and a slight switch ^_^) and I drew some positive attention to myself. My own sister didn't even recognize me in the hall. She came up to me after school and was like, "I saw U in the hall and I had to do a double take cause I didn't know it was you!"

Don't give up on girls. There are girls that like shorter guys. You might just find a girl your height and she might hate taller guys. It'll work out fine. Cheer up!

Answer 5

Well, first off, Beauty comes from the inside out...if you are ugly on the inside, no amount of flashy makeup or expensive clothing will ever be able to fix that. Therefore, I would suggest that you make sure that your personality shines through at all times. Then if you feel it necessary, it never hurts to look nice...but you shouldn't do it entirely for HIM... do it for yourself...taking care of yourself gives you a natural sense of confidence that he won't be able to resist. You don't have to dress in micro-mini skirts or super low cut tops to get a guys attention...just dress in what makes you comfortable, and you should become attractive to HIM in no time :)))

Answer 6

that is not true there is nothing wrong with a short guy.or a unattractive person i am 5 ft 4 and 19 i am cute and i had over 20 girls numbers and that is not even asking them for there number dont think bad about your self not many women would turn down a man because he is short or unattracive like when i go for a girl i dont care if she is tall.short.fat.skiny i dont care some of the overweight girls i dated have been the nices girl ever. there nothing wrong with anyones looks people are attracted to differnt things dont be hard on your self

Answer 7

Don't be silly - some of the most unnattractive men in the world manage to find love. Proof: George W Bush, John Howard, Tony Blair, Woody Allen, Tom Cruise (I think he's gross), Jerry Seinfeld... People like all kinds of things about you that have nothing to do with your looks, and people find different types attractive.

Answer 8

I am short, and very attractive. When I look at mysewlf in the mirror I see a tough guy. Ladies like me and if I had no respect for them I would be a cassanova.

If you dont belive in yourself, why would anybody belive in you? When you dress in the morning, you dress as you feel in the inside. So if you think you not attractive you probably dress like just like you are feeling in the inside and you expect people to be attracted to you?

Get out of your caccoon, treat yourself the way you would like to be treated cutie!

You can only attract your kind.

Answer 9

What's wrong with short? Plenty of people are short and they somehow manage to find a girlfriend. You have to build up your self esteem. Good Luck.

Answer 10

confidence man...make it up with being confident, a good guy, and not picky yourself. people in general can't stand a feel sorry for myself person...get off the computer, do some sit ups, buy some platform shoes, and go talk to some girls...