Ok me and my gf where in one of those lovey dovey couple modes tonight and people were getting sick of us. So we went to go be alone and while alone she started asking me about my trip and I told her I would be gone for a week and a half. After that her mood changed and I told her I would see if there was the internet where I was going to be so we can talk and she tells me not to bother and that was wanted to go bed so I should I leave. What was up with her? What should I do?
2006-11-09 16:54:18 · 12 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes pissed doesnt want you to leave and cant hide her feelings about the situation and instead of being ugly about it she would rather be alone
2006-11-09 16:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by aengel69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is really upset that you will be gone so long.When the topic of your trip first came up did you mention that it wa that long in length?If she wasn't prepared for it she may feel like you are hiding something about your trip.When you go home call her and tell her that you will be thinking of her.If she does'nt answer the phone then leave a message on her machine or voice mail.She will appreciate it in the long run.You might even pick up a card before you leave.Mail it off to her when you leave to let her know that you miss her and will be back soon.
2006-11-10 01:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by angels kids 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not blame her! I was the neighbor lady in VA and she was The Landlord, and the extra afffection in public is over compensating for devient behavior such as exhabition or other rico behavior. If you are the grand guy then you should be availiable and not have a bunch girl friends that you have slept with and call them the neighbor or the landlord or the people you work with be upfront. Then Hey, nobody will wait for the call and they will not have blind faith to trust and get let go when your ego is satified. It is BS, to me
2006-11-10 01:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is upset that you didn't offer to call her or even tell her how much you are going to miss her. She probably just wants to hear that you wish she could come with you and that you are going to miss her sooooo much. I'm sure she also wants to hear your voice when your gone. It really sounds like she has a low self-esteem and she wants to know that you aren't going to cheat on her. You should reassure her that you care about her and you are going to miss her. Go buy a couple of calling cards and give one to her and tell her you will call her when you get there. Give her the hotel name and number as well. I know it sounds out there- but it's hard to miss someone when you feel like they won't miss you.
2006-11-10 01:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no, you're in trouble mister! YOU DIDN'T ASK HER TO GO WITH YOU!!!!!! Tsk tsk tsk No wonder she's cut with you dude. Give her a call, go on, do it do it! Pick up the phone and ask her to come with you. You'll so totally regret it when you get home if you dont! Just think about this, you'll have loads more fun with her than without her, she'll love you more, she'll think you're a legend coz you were thoughtful enough to ask her to come, and she'll feel so much more wanted and needed in your life. It's all in your benefit. Go on, you know ya wanna!
2006-11-10 00:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by exaluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not mad at you, she'll probably apologize eventually. She's just mad at the situation and the helplessness you have of being in it. (You probably wouldn't want to cancel your trip anyway, even if you had the choice!)
So don't exactly ignore her, but maybe somehow gently bring it up that she can act more grown up about the situation.
That you'd do something about it if you could (....sikkkkee), but unfortunately you can't.
2006-11-10 00:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by WiseWisher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just depressed you're leaving... it'll fade away. I feel like that when it's time to say goodnight to my special guy....sighhhhh. He'd sensed that and will comment, you're suddenly not in the mood. But assure that you love her, it'll brighten her up.
2006-11-10 00:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by Rio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she loves u very much and sad that u r leaving although it's only for a week and a half.myb,she afraid that she's going to miss u like crazy when u r not there with her.tell her that u'll miss her and looooooooooooovvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeeeeeee he vvvveeeeeeeerrrrryyyyyyy much. good luck!
2006-11-10 01:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by i^am^me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is a mood swing, she just wants to be near you, but go to where you should go its a test to your relationship,she must adjust and she must know that you cant be together all the time, absence helps keeps the heart fonder
2006-11-10 01:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is all of the above....She is depressed that you are going, mad because you/she can't do anything about it,worried mybe that you will cheat on her while gone...and exaluva said it best!
2006-11-10 01:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋