I've never actually "tried" this sort of thing, meaning, I've never set a goal to be close to someone before. But I need a stepping stone on where to start, and hopefully you guys and girls can help me out. Thanks for your responses in advanced :).
2006-11-09 16:53:12 · 10 answers · asked by xyz00192 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww! So sweet! Okay, here you go.
Approach #1:
You stalk her. You know, find out all her fav. haunts, fav. foods, ect. ect.
Approach #2:
You could make friends with one of her friends, or, if she drops her books in the hall or something, then you could help her. This will make you seem like a nice guy (which I'm sure you are). If shes' academic and intellectual, make her see you like your studies too.
Approach #3:
If you're a really bold type, just go up, start talking, ya' know. I suggest watching 'Gone With the Wind' for this type of seduction.
2006-11-09 16:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know any of her friends? That is the best method of cultivation.
If you know nothing at all about her, you'll have to try a cold approach. Generally, if you pay attention, you can see if you will get anywhere fairly quickly, in less than a minute. Be extra well groomed, use your best smile, do not be too aggressive, but out-front about your sense of attraction.
Sometimes, certainly not always, an initial luke warm response, can be kindled over time, with gentle perserverence.
For example, I tried a cold approach once in college with a shy but comely lass, and got a blank expression and no response at all. DEAD EXPRESSION. 10 days later, she sat down next to me on bench on the quad, and started a conversation. Why the change? She had asked her friends about me, and one of them knew I had gotten an A from a professor she liked. That was the connection she needed to feel interested enough and safe enough to become acquainted. I know this because she told me.
Many cautious women, not all, simply will not talk with male strangers, even notably attractive ones, in a public place at all. They consider it a matter of personal safety. Other women (and men of course) will go out to clubs or bars deliberately to meet strangers. And, based on appearances alone, it can be tough to tell the difference, too. That is the challenge.
2006-11-09 17:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by artaxerxes-solon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. Let me give you the advice of what works and doesn't work. The first step is lying. Go up to her and pretend that you don't know the homework or what the teacher said, that way you are ok and feel better about being around her or even talking to her. Then when you see her again the next day or whenever she's not going to think you randomly walked up to her to get in her pants. Then you can talk about the homework you did and if she did hers. After that, it's all in your hands. Go get her mang.
2006-11-09 17:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If you exude confidence most women can't resist. And you really have nothing to lose. Try talking to her after class, see if she is responsive, then ask her about meeting up for coffee or getting together to study for an upcoming test. Just something to break the ice, and take it from there. =)
2016-03-19 06:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best way is to get to know her by self introduction or through friends, meet date, get about and you have started on the right foot. Get to know her likes, dislikes, her favourite stars, her songs, try humming her favourite tune when you are in her company or with mutual friends, her strong and weak subjects and above all respect her every move, pay her real praiseworthy compliments which you truly mean, and, before long you'll sail smoothly into her company, into her heart and be her star performer! Best of luck.
2006-11-09 17:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your obviously in the same class. A good opener would be, "Can I ask you a question about (whatever the subject is)? And then introduce yourself to her and inquire more about homework perhaps or the assignment. You can really get bold here and ask her out for coffee and ask if you can possibly pick her brain about the assignment because your having a hard time understanding certain concepts. Good Luck
2006-11-09 16:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt. Compliment her outfit that day her hair etc.... make small talk..talk about the class add a few more compliments...tell her that that new MOVIE is out that you would like to see and ask her if she'd like to go.
Just be yourself! Goodluck and don;t be shy!!!
2006-11-09 16:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by Beautifulme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can start by observing her, often (but not always) you can tell a lot about a person just by watching them(and i dont mean stalking >.>;;). Anyway, the way she dresses, the stickers on her binder or jacket etc. can tell you her liked/dislikes. second is actually talking to her, try not to talk during class though since she's trying to pass it mind you. you really dont need to know anything to talk to her, asking her some simple questions(and not perverted ones >.>;;) is a great way to get to know her. If anything, you can try networking(no, not hacking the schools mainframe or anything like that >.>;;), talk to your friends, talk to her friends, see if they can give you the 411 on your "crush" so to speak. But just bear one thing in mind, do not ask for her name or her number straight out of the blue, its irritating...... for everyone. well thats all i can say really, except for this, try to be honest, even if you two dont see eye to eye on a lot of things, that way you two can have a long discusion debating your views and so on.
2006-11-09 17:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off by saying hi. Say hi everyday until you can sneak a conversation into it, the rest is on you!
2006-11-09 16:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe make small talk about your instructor or the class or the subject. ask if she wants to study with you to start off, or just ask her out
2006-11-09 16:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋