I cater to her needs all the time. I don't do things that I know she wouldn't like. I'm silly, funny, and usually optimistic. Well she freaks out over things that I haven't even done. I'm really tired of it and I have told her over and over to stop flipping out. She takes some things way too seriously and often flips out over the smallest thing. Usually when she does something I might not like I just shrug it off or let her know about it without getting upset. Since whats the point in getting upset over something so trivial? Then she tries to turn it around on me as if I did something wrong. I just say nevermind since its not a big deal. Then she flips out some more! Why can't she just be happy? Why is she so crazy? It really makes me afraid to tell her anything because I don't want her flipping out on me. What do I do? She smokes weed and thats when she is generally very relaxed, but I really don't like her doing it. Should I just get her some bags so she'll stop being crazy?
2006-11-09 16:49:04 · 9 answers · asked by Misterman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u both should get counseling
2006-11-09 16:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let her control you, trust me I'm in the same relationship and I let my girlfriend control me and I've been paying for it ever since. Stop catering to her needs, like you shrug off her little trivial arguments, shrug off your waiter like attitude toward her needs. You are a man, you as well as I must realize that. My girlfriend also goes crazy over the most insane things, you must realize why she does. She likes control, to have someone that submits to her. Also, a girl that smokes weed is not lady like and has the integrity of a pornstar, which is not a very good one. Get rid of this stupid crazy girl or take my advice now, please.
2006-11-10 00:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She doesn't want to be happy. She's just going to stress you out forever. Find someone who will love and enjoy you for who you are. She's out there, but you aren't going to find her staying with this chick.
She needs to grow up and take responsibility for her actions before she can be a good girlfriend to anyone.
2006-11-10 00:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you to snap on her..than she'll be a good girl thats all that is, your niceness is taking her for a ride she's getting complete bored of it and it's frustrating her thats why she has these lil spats, it's ashame that some famales are like that but thats just how it is, sometimes we just like to see the bad come out of you guys! trust me i know this i'm a female.
2006-11-10 01:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, your gf is a bad word stating with B and ends with itch. I totally hate pigeon holing people, but she sounds so high maintenance. get rid of the stoner and find someone who isn't a few sandwiches short of a picnic. best of luck
2006-11-10 00:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by exaluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe all the drugs she takes are getting to her, maybe you should see if she can get some more help.
2006-11-10 00:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by Aussie Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if those bags are the ones she needs to be packing
2006-11-10 00:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Leslie R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop buying her weed...that whats making her crazy
2006-11-10 00:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by free-spirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, but what's out of the ordinary here?
2006-11-10 00:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by pot paw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋