i am in love with this woman who left me forgot about me and is now with a guy who hits her she told me she loved me and i told her as well but was it nothing from the start i dont want to be a firend anymore and now i am bitter what can i do why would she say that .................
2006-11-09 16:35:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes you don't know what you have until it is gone. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Now she is with someone abusive, and she my realize how good it was to be with someone that treated her better.
I don't know if she wants to continue to be abused by the guy. She may want to turn back the clock and be with you. Saying she loves you and hoping you loved her too.
If she isn't going to leave the guy, then you can tell her that you still love her and because you do, you can't stand to see her abused on a regular basis. You need to distance yourself from her because you can't stand by and do nothing.
If she doesn't come back, then move on. Think of the good times and look for someone else that can share your dream.
2006-11-09 16:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch let her know u will always be there for her. When she comes to her senses about being beat she will come back to u. Better call the police u one should never abuse another person in a romantic relationship.
2006-11-10 00:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that stament is fallacious, im a woman and its not easy for me to say i love you, its not easy for me to commit, its not easy for me to have any relationship, i have to sort things out, probably this woman you are talking about is not the main symbol for every woman , do not and never generalize women.
you are heartbroken, refrain from thinking about this woman too much, you have better things to do and better topics to think about she is not the world and dont let her get to you like that
you are your own boss, so start living, forget her you deserve bettter.
2006-11-10 00:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they know that they can get away with cheating and stuff so easily. So for them its no big deal to make a guy think she loves him.
2006-11-10 00:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you said that you also said it back to her so why say "why is it so easy for a WOMAN to say i love you" obviously its just as easy for men too...
2006-11-10 00:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by hello hello! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's looking to use you as a door mat to wipe her feet clean from the dirt she got from the other guy. Don't do it, let her learn from her own mistakes
2006-11-10 00:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's got problems if she's with a guy who hits her... unfortunately for you, you want to save her... but that's something she has to fix herself. Be a friend, but voice your concerns. You can't make her love you
2006-11-10 00:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by jae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has low self esteem - she's rather be with a guy who abuses her than with a man who really cares about her - it's her loss!!
2006-11-10 00:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she do love you but she loves the other guy more. when she gets tired of him hitting her she'll come back to you
2006-11-10 00:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by teddy bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey..it is never easy for me... I take time and i have to feel it..!!
2006-11-10 01:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋