2006-11-09 16:33:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes...
you just have to.
Thats not to say that you're not good in bed. Its alot harder for girls to uhh, get off.
Sometimes, we just know it isnt going to happen, or we're tired...and ready to go to bed.
2006-11-09 16:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by kaye t 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. To get them to not fake it, you must create a comfortable environment where not climaxing is just fine and you will work together to reach climax. Seriously, I only did it because the guy I was with demanded that I have an orgasm every time or he wouldn't stop. Sometimes I hurt or didn't want to do it anymore, so I'd fake one so he'd stop. This was not good, obviously, and I got out of this relationship, but there are other reasons. It's usually to make the guy feel good. If the guy seems depressed or keeps bringing it up that he didn't make you orgasm, you might feel bad and so you'd fake it sometimes so he feels better.
To avoid this, just be really open and let the girl be comfortable with you. Tell her it's okay to not climax, ask if she ever has, and then try together to have it happen sometime.
2006-11-09 17:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women (the manipulative kind, perhaps), fake it usually; while others seemingly rarely. Some will not as a matter of principle. I prefer the honesty of the last group, btw. Sometimes they can get there, and sometimes they cannot, often depending on fatique, environment, stress, exogenous factors. Some partners often require extended foreplay, others usually do not.
Sometimes faking is a matter of the partner's insufficiency; sometimes it is a matter of the faker's habits.
Over time, women tell me, certain women can train themselves to prefer a vibrator; after which, partners of any description rarely satisfy, regardless of technique or energy, unless they use the device. Seems a bit sad, but that is just an opinion.
Some men fake enjoyment (not orgasm), too, btw. Etiquette calls for it sometime.
2006-11-09 16:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by artaxerxes-solon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, yes. Ideally, no. A girl that doesn't fake it will find that her needs are met, once she teaches him what gets her there. A girl who lets him think he's doing the job will get more of the same, even though it does nothing for her.
2006-11-09 16:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, more than men will EVER know because all of the men think the faking happens to other men...so sad.
2006-11-09 16:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by Corona 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think any girl fakes it. Then again you've got to be more precise in what you are referring to. You will have better answers and more logical ones, much nearer home if the question is worded right.
2006-11-09 16:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by vernon s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes,,we fake it when a guy we like or love isnt doing the job right and you want to make him feel good to see if that might make him perform better..
2006-11-09 16:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course , sometimes it is to stroke the man's ego and sometimes it's just to make it more exciting. Some men really perform better when the here the ooh ahh sounds. :)
2006-11-09 16:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not my gals...
What? Sometimes? Whatta ya mean by that?
Uh yeah I guess they do.. 8^(
2006-11-09 16:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes some do if the guys isnt performing up to their standards..
2006-11-09 16:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋