Why do guys tease girls and touch them on the shoulders, sides, and back constantly and give them a hard time? But then when they see them they hug them?
GUYS are way too confusing!
2006-11-09 16:30:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so do women... it is human nature!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-09 16:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It sounds as if this guy is in love with you but value your friendship more than he values a possible relationship or rather the failure of a relationship. He is scared that he will loose you as a friend if he put pressure on you to be more than a friend. He sends out mixed messages because he don't get the desired responses from you. You hold the key to resolve this. You must decide "Are you in love with him or not?" You must remember that friendship can be forever but you must not complicate it with a relationship that can turn bad. A bad relationship will end the relationship and the friendship. If you are in love with him, let him know. If he ask again why you haven't got a boyfriend, tell him that he have not asked you to be his girlfriend as yet. If you only want him as a friend, also tell him. I however see from the above question that you are in love and waiting for him to go the extra step. He is scared to take the step, so you must give a helping hand to make him take the step. Next time you take his hand, you smile at him first, just some encouragement for him to see that you are also interested.
2016-05-22 02:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by Penelope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys always respect and are scared of pretty slim girls, thats a fact, trust me, guys never give to attention to them girls in fear of being rejected, belivesing she is too good for them, belivieing she might already have someone, but whereas men who give lot of attention to women who are usually average , and men belive she is below them in terms of looks and automaitcally belive she will flirt back and the guys are confident that she is single and she cant have anyone because she aint all that pretty so thats why guys do things and tease them type of women, trust me as a guy and as Phsycologist
2006-11-09 16:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
what this guy is doing to you isn't "mixed messages" at all... All of these are ways of showing affection. In fact, ive heard, and believe that if you tease someone, usually it means you like them. Unless you're just plainly cruel, which i really doubt is the case here.
2006-11-09 16:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by Billy Boy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And you are too young apparently. Teasing is a way a guy tell you he is interested without it seeming gushy and unmanly to his buddies.
2006-11-09 16:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by the shadow knows 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys are a mess, but they certainly do know how to keep us girls on our toes, and we love it! Ya know they say the same thing about us...silly boys! Ha Ha
2006-11-09 16:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women do the same thing beleive it or not women drive men nuts and vice versa and thats the way it will always be
2006-11-09 16:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're percieving innocuos touching as something more.
2006-11-09 16:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men!! Thats all i can say! I get that all the time too!
2006-11-09 16:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by Aussie Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For the same reason girls do it!
2006-11-09 16:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You just have to know what type of guy they are
2006-11-09 16:35:01 · answer #11 · answered by ashley 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋