ive never wanted something to work so much in my life. i really love this guy. we have problems. i dont trust him. i know the saying about trust. well he is always saying he is going to change, cause he lies alot. well i told him im willing to give him a chance but we cant have sex because it hurt to make love to someone who is always letting you down. i feel if he loves me he will prove it without sex. then that way ill know he is caring for me and not what i can do for him sexually. do you think this is a good way to see if someone will prove themselves honestly. or am i just wasting my time. i do believe he loves me he just has issues. what do you think?
2006-11-09 16:30:33 · 7 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys r guys, they will always be into sex, but if he truly loves u he wnt care about the sex, decent , respectable caring guys would rather get on with the girl, have a laugh with her, share things in commone, do things together, i.e Holidays, shopping, talk to eachother about life and current affairs, all these things are key to a sucessful relationship, but if he just cares about sex then i garantee you he will find sumoe else in the future , cuz guys who r just into sex will get bored with one girl and move to another and also might find a girl they can relate to and be with the for who they are not just for sex, but in ur case if he truly likes u then he wnt care about sex, take it from me as a guy, dnt let him think ur easy and just up for one thing, cuz u lose ur self respect and dignity and become emotionally unstable later in life.
2006-11-09 16:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M SORRY TO SAY THIS BUT IF YOU NEED HIM TO SHOW
YOU THAT HE HAD CHANGED. YOU ARE IN FOR A RUDE
AWAKING IF THERE NO TRUST IN THE BEGINNING THEN
IT REALLY DOES NOT MATTER WHAT HE SAY OR DOES
HE ONLY DOING WHAT HE THINK YOU NEED TO GET WHAT
HE WANT. AND THAT NOT A GOOD PLACE TO BE. HE
SHOULD NOT HAVE TO PROVE ANYTHING, IF HE REALLY
LOVE YOU THEN IT WOULD BE ABOUT TRUST AND IT
SOUND LIKE HE NOT GOING TO CHANGE FOR THE RIGHT
REASON.
2006-11-10 00:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good way to see if he really cares but you have to make sure that the amount of time you decide to wait is enough to jusify if he has true feelings or not.
2006-11-10 00:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by good_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop that zero, and go with a hero....all he want is sex from you..you are doing the right thing don't give him none if he really loves you he will wait till your ready..he lies alot?....he is going to lie even more just to get you in his bed.....and he will be telling his friends that he got that.....don't fall for that zero...go find you a hero someone who will not lye to you and treat you better. ...good luck.
2006-11-10 00:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by gengen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are doing the right thing.your testing his love. your trying to see if he love u or he just want u for the sex. your doing the right thing, and every relationships have their ups and downs.
2006-11-10 00:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Fallin out of Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance to prove him self.... dont let hi down or hurt him.... but make him realize his mistakes without u pointing at them directly at them.... if he doesnt change for the good its time for u to change yr partner...
2006-11-10 00:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that is a great way to handle the situation i have done that before and it worked
2006-11-10 00:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Kit Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋