i've tried everything to make it work, given her space, let her do things im uncomfortable with, taken all the yelling, i dont know if its worth it any more
2006-11-09 16:24:07 · 8 answers · asked by hobbit91911 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes people stay in a relationship not because they still love the person, but because its become their comfort zone.
Dont stay if its just your comfort zone.
If you're gettin treated bad, and you've tried to make it work, there will always be another woman walking around willing to appreciate you.
2006-11-09 16:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by kaye t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long, is a long relationship? Are you married? Or not? Because if your married then you could see a counselor. And to be honest, you can also see a counselor if your not married too. It depends if you still love her or not. By the sounds of it your half way out the door as it is. You list some things you have tried to make it work but have you sat down with her and discussed how close you are to leaving? That might be a wake up call for her, or not. If it is a long term relationship then you, both need to decide if it is time to call it quits. Because if your not happy and she is not happy then this is something to discuss seriously and soon.
2006-11-09 16:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have this question then you already have your answer. I met my future wife 15 years ago and have never once thought about quitting. There has been no yelling, nothing uncomfortable, we are best friends, lovers, and parents and nothing gets in our way.
You need to break a bad habit and move on. It might hurt a little, quitting smoking hurts like hell, but a bad habit is best broken.
2006-11-09 16:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by dozerrn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that there are 6 billion people on earth. 3 Billion are men, 3 billion are women if your not happy then leave, life is to short to be unhappy. And no doubt each will find somebody someday to be happy with.
2006-11-09 16:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by landersonjr1958 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know enough is enough when you done all that you can do, and still feel at a lost. Sounds like you have done it all. Time to let go, it is not easy.
2006-11-09 16:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by magicallybeautiful10plus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one thing i can tell you.. you know it is over when" what ever she says don't hurt you any more" ... so if you have come to that place.. and.. you say you have tried every thing... Just let it go...
I know how it feels
2006-11-09 17:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're unhappy and uncomfortable more than you're happy and comfortable, its time for a talk. If you cant get her to compromise, or if she just gives it lip service and goes back to her ways, its over. it doesn't have to be angry and violent to end, maybe you just aren't compatible
2006-11-09 16:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by Myrrhder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste anymore time on a dysfunctional relationship. Move on and cut your losses.
2006-11-09 16:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋