christmas for 18mths old boy?

Question

How much is to much or to little.I wanr to make a great christmas as he is older for his 2nd christmas. I want to give him a swing set, climbing jym, a toy jeep, Jt teddy, and other things.Is this to much...

Answer 1

He won't remember Christmas, but if you want to get those things for him there's no reason not to.

One thing to remember, though, for a baby his age: If you have a tree and "Santa comes" before he wakes up he'll have a lot of fun if under the tree there are some toys he can sit and play with - like Duplos (the toddler version of Legos), maybe the Teddy (whatever that is), some toddler-size people (made by Tyco) with some made-for-toddlers furniture for those people, other types of stacking or nesting toys, something like a little cart that he can push or pull with stuff in it, or a simple little thing he could ride on (maybe in the house), toddler books, any of the "learning toys" that are made for toddlers, etc. There are also puzzles for toddlers or things that make music.

If you get things that may be aimed at a two-year-old (and things for two-year-olds usually still have toddler-safe parts) they'll keep him interested throughout the whole year and beyond in some cases.

He's old enough to be surprised and delighted by a Christmas tree that suddenly shows up with a bunch of toys under it that are appealing to him, and although he won't quite know exactly what Christmas is he'll be delighted.

Its your business if you want to get a swing set, climbing gym and jeep. He won't be 18 months old forever, but he'll still only be 2 and 1/2 next Christmas (which is still plenty young). Bear in mind that the toys you described (not the Teddy and maybe not the jeep) tend to be more appropriate for children who are a little older than 18 months.

Still, he's your baby and its your business. Whenever you buy the outdoor stuff (that he may not be old enough to be able to connect with the whole Christmas thing) you'll have it in the yard, and he'll get years of enjoyment.

I don't think its too much in terms of how much you buy. I kind of think its a little too much in terms of his being a little too young for some things. See if there is an age listed for each of the toys you're considering.

Answer 2

I agree with the people who say dont go overboard. You need to keep your joy of giving in balance by remembering what is good for him. There is nothing more disappointing than watching children rip off wrapping paper, make a huge mess, go from one gift to the next real fast and show no true joy or appreciation. On the other hand, singing together, going out to look at the lights and decorations, planning a special meal and get together for loved ones; those things make us glow.
Look for things that will really fascinate him and nuture his growth. I personally think a little swing or gym would be great but he will need a bigger one then in a year or two.
Also, it is true that he wont really 'get it' this year, but I still believe you are setting the standard. Children who have been trained to expect a huge gift glut at christmas very quickly move from the cute - write it on the list for santa stage, to greedy little people who see christmas as an opportunity to make demands for everything they desire.

Answer 3

My son was 18 months old for his 2nd Christmas.
He didn't have a CLUE what was going on, nor does he remember the day at all.
My advice would be to pick one main gift to give him. And a few small things he would enjoy playing with.
There are other occasions, and other times for other things. Don't overdo it.
My son is 4 this year....and he finally does know what is going on. And now he is BEGGING for things.
Hon...enjoy this time while your little man is so young, that all he wants is your love.

Answer 4

My daugther is 18 months old and loves her swing set she sits in the baby swing and swings for ages on end. Christmas isn't about the gifts its about Jesus but if you don't believe in this I say spend as much as you are comfortable with keeping in mind that he will get heaps from your relatives.

Answer 5

Honey, he won't know a swing set from his booty at 18 months. He will have no memory of this Christmas. Before you spend all that money on swings that he can't play on and jeeps that his feet can't even touch the pedals, use some good old fashioned common sense and don't. Save all that for next Christmas when he will be aware of what's going on around him.

Answer 6

I understand completely. Thus the more toys you get, the more of a mess you might have. I have decided to write down everything I want to get my youngest (2 yr) And decided to pick a few for say like 3 items, and then devide the rest of list up among family, and close friends whom buy for ours. This way, they are more likely to get everything I wanted, and I didnt have to deal with toys or clothes I didnt want from family, and this way I know what to expect. And then I will make sure to purchase any other items, from "santa" like pj's, movies, games, etc. Its worth a shot. Good Luck Sorry if I didnt give a correct answer.

Answer 7

Yes, I think it's too much. He doesn't even know about gifts yet. If you start that now, how much are you going to have to give him when he can understand presents? Get him a few little things or one big thing, but that's it. What makes a great Christmas is spending time together, going to look at Christmas lights, etc.

Answer 8

I never understood why people equate Christmas with tons of gifts. Why don't you give him the gift of charity and a good Christian attitude. Teach your child that Christmas is about celebrating the birth of your savior. If more people would thing about what the holiday is really about, and less about gifts and decorations, the world might become a better place for all of us. I know I am sounding like a ***** here, but I really believe that people need to redefine what Christmas means.

Answer 9

My grandson only grew to become 2 and is in love with vans and autos, yet exceedingly vans. I gave him the vehicle transport from the action picture autos. It comes with 3 small autos that he can load and unload . He only loves it. After twiddling with it for 20 minutes I have been given a huge unsolicited "thank you gamma" and a kiss. My son mentioned he grew to become into nonetheless keeping it the subsequent morning whilst he woke up.